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Anonymous Sat 20 Apr 2013 07:41:41 No.12118019 View View Reply Original Report

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alright /adv/ reality time
>be 14 in high school
>join choir
>meet choir teacher, 29 year old gay man, and a bunch of new friends
>hang around choir room ALOT and hang out with teacher alot, most amazing man in the world
>its like a family in there
>turn into favorite of teacher
>others get jealous of me and resent me for getting most attention
>fall in love with girl Valerie
>fast forwards 2 years later
>teacher confessed love for me
>freak out
>respect him to much to say anything to anyone

cont...

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 04:40:29 No.12122434 Report

Quoted By: >>12122474 >>12122482 >>12122511 >>12122575 >>12122579

>>12118569

where i am now...

>asked teacher to let me stay with him
>he said yes
>im here
>me and him are weird now
>he still loves me
>i still love him
>its been around a month since all this happen
>ive been living here since
>he wasnt lying when he said this is my home
>but i just want to make things better between us
>i fucked up bad
>kept making wrong decisions
>he says shes just immature and hasnt experienced as much as i have
>we fight sometimes
>pretend valerie is gone
>dont need her
>still see (real) valerie at school
>shes still pretty and smiles at me
>trying to the ends of the fucking world to ignore her
>doing pretty good
>me and teacher fight sometimes
>gets physical sometimes
>today got bad
>i kinda hurt him......

cont?
if u guys want

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 04:49:33 No.12122474 Report

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>>12122434
Go for it, I'm still reading.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 04:50:22 No.12122482 Report

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>>12122434
Carry on.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 04:55:42 No.12122511 Report

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>>12122434
WHAT THE FUCK.
Why would you do that? Why??? He's been the nicest person possible to you, why would you hurt him...?

Dear god, please continue. This story has changed my life.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:08:25 No.12122575 Report

Quoted By: >>12122596 >>12122598 >>12122880

>>12122434

>things are rough between us
>he's still hurt
>i'm dead inside feeling super ugly
>lost my figure
>getting chubby
>feeling useless
>he feels the same
>we argue'
>he pushes me around
>i try my best not to do anything
>was in boxing for 4 years
>pretty strong
>try not to hit him
>he corners me screaming at me
>tells me to fuck off
>he's just angry
>keeps screaming
>keep my cool
>situations like this happen alot of the time
>not that much though
>today is different
>im on edge
>he breaks my ps3
>keep my cool
>then he hits me in my face
>keep cool
>then he slams me to ground
>i lost it
>saw red
>he's on the ground begging me to hit him harder
>he's bleeding
>run outside
>smoke a cig
>go inside
>he's moaning on bathroom of pain
>feel bad
>go into room
>dont come out for few hours
>go into kitchen
>new ps3 slim on counter
>.....

im a shitty person

Femanon

Femanon Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:09:24 No.12122579 Report

Quoted By: >>12122602

>>12122434
Why even be with this creepy teacher if you're not gay?

One thing you should learn from this is that you DONT want to be with the teacher. If you are not gay, about which I remain skeptical, then one day another girl will come along and cause you to feel the way you do about Valerie and either she will want to be with you and be straight up about it, or she will overlook you becuase you are living a faggots life.
Get out of there, man

Anonymous

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Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:12:04 No.12122596 Report

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>>12122575
This story is incredibly ridiculous and yet I can't look away.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:12:11 No.12122598 Report

Quoted By: >>12122611

>>12122575
Well, you did leave him twice after all that he's done for you... But he shouldn't have hit you, that's really messed up. And if this happens a lot then maybe you two shouldn't be together anymore.

BUT, it does seem like both of you felt sorry for what happened. And I really just want you two to be together and love each other and be happy :(

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:12:55 No.12122602 Report

Quoted By: >>12122661

>>12122579

i love him
im not attracted to men, but i love him
mostly attracted to girls, fap to girls
flirt with girls, no interest in men
but i love teacher very much

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:14:26 No.12122611 Report

Quoted By: >>12122624

>>12122598

we are happy, we just fight alot
before i left him again
we hardly ever fought...
so the day we stop fighting is the day ill leave,
but we always fight

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:16:05 No.12122624 Report

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>>12122611
Ok wait. The day you stop fighting is the day you'll leave? What the fuck does that mean? That seems extremely unhealthy.
What do you guys even fight about?

Femanon

Femanon Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:22:34 No.12122661 Report

Quoted By: >>12122686 >>12122805

>>12122602
But you only love him until an awesome girl comes along. Valerie wasnt even awesome, she just liked playing you.
What about when the next girl comes, since youre so into girls?
He is a pedo, and he has seriously messed with your head from when you were a child. Your parents should have had him arrested.

You owe him nothing but resentment, and maybe some rent money.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:27:28 No.12122686 Report

Quoted By: >>12122702

>>12122661

thank you for your opinion
but that didnt help at all

Femanon

Femanon Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:30:14 No.12122702 Report

Quoted By: >>12122711

>>12122686
Well I already said you should leave so you have a shot with a future girl. But if you're going to run back to a pedo you arent attracted to, then honestly its no wonder Val finds the situation too freaky to get tangled up in. Have you considered thats why she keeps playing you? Because the idea of dating a guy who spent years 'loving' and hooking up with a male schoolteacher seems a bit too weird for her?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:32:59 No.12122711 Report

Quoted By: >>12122717 >>12122849

>>12122702
Shut the fuck up and stop calling him a pedo. In some states its legal to have a relationship with people who are 16 and older, and he's still with him years later. To be together this long after all they've been through shows serious love, regardless of whether he's "gay" or not.

What are you guys fighting about? :I

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:34:18 No.12122717 Report

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>>12122711

thank you
you have obviously been in love before

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:50:05 No.12122805 Report

Quoted By: >>12122811 >>12122816

>>12122661
I agree with this.

Dude, love isn't supposed to be a friendship thing.
Don't marry someone just because their kind to you.

AND FOR THE LOVE OF GOD
DONT MARRY A MAN IF YOUR NOT GAY

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:51:10 No.12122811 Report

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>>12122805
Oh yeah,

This is a beautiful story. Write a novel OP.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 05:53:10 No.12122816 Report

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>>12122805
>their
They're
>DONT
Don't
>YOUR
You're

my bad.

Femanon

Femanon Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:00:37 No.12122849 Report

Quoted By: >>12122859

>>12122711
He targeted the kid/grew interest when he was 14 and the teacher was 29.
Pedophelia

There is nothing romantic about an almost 30 man 'falling' for a confused teenage boy and manipulating his trust and causing the kid to rely on him and be with him when he's apparently not gay.

Must be a sick, sad individual to try and turn a confused teenager into a gay then be mad that said teenager has non gay feelings for a girl.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:01:07 No.12122851 Report

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>>12118181
Second, what an incredible story

Femanon

Femanon Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:02:51 No.12122859 Report

Quoted By: >>12122872

>>12122849
There is a good reason why the teacher would get in trouble-because it is wrong, it is illegal and it is an abuse of the role of trust.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:04:04 No.12122864 Report

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>>12118451
>cuz im not gay,..

10/10

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:05:16 No.12122868 Report

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>>12118569
WHY DO YOU KEEP LEAVING THE TEACHER BEEEEFOOOOOOORE YOU ASK TO BE WITH VAL

YOU MAKE THIS MISTAKE OVER AND OVER

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:06:03 No.12122872 Report

Quoted By: >>12122897 >>12122910

>>12122859

well its not like that at all
im sorry you got that impression

Anonymous

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Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:07:31 No.12122880 Report

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>>12122575
It doesn't end

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:09:51 No.12122897 Report

Quoted By: >>12122906

>>12122872
This is the first thing you need to confront.

It is blatantly obvious.

If I were to summarise what the big issue here is, it would be you lack emotional maturity, probably stemming from a relationship you started when you were 14 but shouldn't have.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:11:58 No.12122906 Report

Quoted By: >>12122920

>>12122897

emotional maturity?

Femanon

Femanon Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:13:40 No.12122910 Report

Quoted By: >>12122927

>>12122872
>i feel kinda suffocated by my teacher and how this situation is fucked up
>lie for his protection

this says, its wrong.

Also, I dont know if anyone else realised this but I CALL BULLSHIT.

At the start you said you were 14, he was 29. This makes him 15 years older.
yet..
>hes 11 years older than me

THIS WHOLE THING IS BULLSHIT. aging doesnt work that way, yo.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:15:54 No.12122920 Report

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>>12122906
It's what everyone goes through around/during adolescence. You can call it what you want, but in this case, you need to grasp the reality of the relationships you find yourself in. You need to wake up, it's not always about your feelings. That doesn't mean shutting your emotions off, actually the opposite. You need to open up how you truly feel about your relationship with the teacher, and how that affects him, what HE really wants from it, and whether you're not able to give him that.

Valerie was 'that girl' that everyone meets, the one that takes their heart away, the one that no one gets to be with. You can love her the rest of your life, but you have to learn that you're going to have to move on.

You should also start to begin to support yourself so your choices aren't bound to others.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:18:02 No.12122927 Report

Quoted By: >>12122940 >>12122944

>>12122910

haha i can assure you its all real
i really didnt focus on ages
mostly just focused on story
believe it or not, this is real

Anonymous

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Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:20:41 No.12122940 Report

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>>12122927
No freaking way...

Femanon

Femanon Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:21:17 No.12122944 Report

Quoted By: >>12122992

>>12122927
whatever. if this was real then you would know properly off the top of your head both the ages you were and the age difference. I still call bullshit.

If it actually real, dont spend your life with/defending a creepy pedo teacher then whinge that the girl you like doesnt want the guy who was going to marry creepy pedo teacher when he apparently isnt gay. Vapid as she may be, she was smart to never get involved with you because the whole thing would seem creepy as fuck to her.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:37:11 No.12122992 Report

Quoted By: >>12123001 >>12123012 >>12123102

>>12122944

im 18 now
he's like 29 or 30?

Femanon

Femanon Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:39:10 No.12123001 Report

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>>12122992
....so you have aged 4 years while he has aged one year?
Bullshit.

Femanon

Femanon Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:42:05 No.12123012 Report

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>>12122992
Doesnt change the fact that again, if this story is real, youre pissy coz a girl rejected you when you are claiming your not gay but marrying and having sex with a male pedo.

You dug your own grave

Stoe !foDtUxhYHs

Stoe !foDtUxhYHs Sun 21 Apr 2013 06:51:37 No.12123056 Report

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So, this kid is retarded as fuck.

Femanon

Femanon Sun 21 Apr 2013 07:01:27 No.12123102 Report

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>>12122992
Say this crap is true.
1. He abused his position as a teacher
2. He manipulated a vulnerable child
3. He placed ultimatiums when he feared his mind games were failing
4. Accepted a proposal to doom the kid to a life he didn't want
5. You may be 18 but many ways still a child. Just a teen.
6. He hit said teen that he is 11 years older than
7. Tried to buy back teens affection with toys.

You seriously think there is nothing wrong with this guy? Absolute piece of shit.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 08:32:40 No.12123490 Report

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Bump OP don't abandon thread now :(

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 09:34:12 No.12123713 Report

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Fin

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 09:34:28 No.12123716 Report

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I guess I welcomed people to treat me like shit for my crap situation, lol
Jk don't care, op still here!

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 14:45:36 No.12124954 Report

Quoted By: >>12125062

Is there any more to the story, OP?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 14:58:29 No.12125017 Report

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ok...

>call teacher a fag
>call val a slag
>mom n dad opened the door
>got on the floor
>everybody walked the dinosaur

fucc ;\

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 15:09:38 No.12125062 Report

Quoted By: >>12126101 >>12126213

>>12124954

Not really, wat would u like to know?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 15:17:18 No.12125083 Report

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>>12118349
I'm only at this part and I can't stop smiling/giggling. PLEASE DON'T DISAPPOINT ME, ENDING!

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 15:24:48 No.12125105 Report

Quoted By: >>12125223

>>12118569
OH GOD MY SMILE AND GIGGLING TURNED INTO UNCONTROLLED LAUGHTER

If this is true: Fuck you, man. That teacher is way too good for you, even though he's a pedo. Also laughing at the "gays are pedos" stereotype here.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 15:44:42 No.12125150 Report

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tl; dr OP is a fag lel

>taking it up the poop chute
>not being gay

you've already chosen and this story is a ridiculous reminder of how weak, frail and fucked up humans are.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 16:15:18 No.12125223 Report

Quoted By: >>12126101

>>12125105
When will the movie be out?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 19:39:53 No.12126101 Report

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>>12125223
I meant >>12125062

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 21 Apr 2013 20:03:58 No.12126213 Report

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>>12125062
How about why you and the teacher keep fighting, and why you'll leave if you stop?

And sorry about all the people being assholes, you are on 4chan though.

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