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Anonymous Mon 02 May 2011 15:20:00 No.5866671 View View Reply Original Report

I have been talking to a really nice guy for the past 6 years, hes sweet and everything I could ever want, hes got a job a house a car and everything.

he wants to go out with me and I want to date him to. but he says he wants 4 children...
no questions about it.
I have 1 son. who is a year old.
but I just got my body back. i really dont want to royally fuck it up. 3 more times.
what do I do?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 02 May 2011 15:44:00 No.5866896 Report

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Oh, god. There's too many fucking kids in this world already. Please don't make more.

Seriously, you can't take care of these kids on your own. So basically, you'd be fucked if he broke up with you. If you have more kids than YOU are able to support, it takes away your freedom.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 02 May 2011 15:45:00 No.5866918 Report

Quoted By: >>5866928

People change all the time. Once he's had the chance to actually see what it's like trying to raise 2 kids, he might decide that 4 isn't what he's looking for after all.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 02 May 2011 15:47:00 No.5866928 Report

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>>5866918

Also, having a kid doesn't necessarily mean that your body HAS to be completely destroyed. You can exercise and keep it in good shape during the pregnancy, then you can have a caesarian or something if you don't want to put your lower body through childbirth again.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 02 May 2011 15:50:00 No.5866959 Report

Quoted By: >>5868710

>>5866671

Fuck him.
Its YOUR decision to have kids, not his. He's just a fucking sperm donor who doesn't have to go through the trauma on his body that carrying ONE fucking kid, let alone FOUR causes.
Tell him you do not want anymore kids right now.
THE END!
If he can't deal, tell him to fuck off. He'll have no problem finding a dumb baby machine that would be more than fucking happy to shit out 4 kids for him and then dump his shit, take his fucking house and car and stick his circa 1800s ass with a fucking child support payment from HELL!
Sure it sucks that you already crapped out a little shit monkey of your own, but wtf, he picked you already so he can fucking deal.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 02 May 2011 20:30:00 No.5868672 Report

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thanks for the advice :)

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Subconscious !uiC9LOV4Tg Mon 02 May 2011 20:38:00 No.5868710 Report

Quoted By: >>5868725

>>5866959
if not trolling, did you type this while shifting your head side to side and waggling your index finger in a "no you didn't" motion?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 02 May 2011 20:45:00 No.5868725 Report

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>>5868710

I lol'd

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 02 May 2011 20:50:00 No.5868746 Report

Quoted By: >>5869515

>>5866671

Is the house and car already paid for? Or is he making payments?

Payments mean that he's got nothing. He just has the illusion of having everything.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 02 May 2011 23:11:00 No.5869515 Report

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>>5868746

its all paid for.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 00:01:00 No.5869821 Report

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Post pics of your allegedly banging body, OP.

Anonymous

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Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:00:00 No.5871987 Report

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>>5870317

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