>>476786895This misses the point. Maybe he's okay with it now, but he expressly stated that he hated it initially, tried to escape multiple times and then just learned to live with it.
I'm quite liberal in terms gender/sexual expression, but this experience began with something unspeakably traumatic. The only option he had was to internalize these experiences so as to avoid facing the harsh reality that you've been deprived of your humanity.