>>4410593I think I know my fiance slightly better than you do. I've dated guys that weren't into lolita, it's pretty obvious when they don't care for it.
We actually met when I was wearing lolita, the first thing he said to me was "Wow, nice dress, you don't see that kind of stuff any more!" and things just went on from there.
He's into vintage things so obviously classic appeals to him more. He hates OTT sweet, but I don't wear it, so no problem there.