Hey /d/, I have a question about BDSM stuff.

I like the sub/dom relationship part of it. I like the control or lack thereof and to a lesser extent I like light bondage stuff.

I really don't like the humiliation or giving/receiving pain aspects.

Is this odd or are there a lot of people who feel similarly? It always seems like those more 'hardcore' aspects are emphasised.

Pic related to /d/ but not to topic.