>>13766390hasnt weight training taught you anything anon? patience pays dividends man. and im not saying go find a landwhale... i actually tried landwhales, skinnyfats, and builtfats. each lost weight and got better looking, but where still bitches and gave up once they got their results. you can find kind skinnyfats that look like they have god-tier genetics hiding underneath that layer of fat.
one thing i would suggest is finding a more manly female, one who is open to doing manly things (she has to want to lift heavy to get the results, as well as the lifestyle change)