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So my best friend got divorced recently. He was married for about 12 years, he's a fairly successful doctor, an amazing father, a bro (The kind of dude that will always be there for you if you need help), he's just a great human being. He recently had a custody battle with his wife and lost. Keep in mind his wife is a high school graduate with no job or means to support herself. They gave her custody and not only that, my friend has to pay her alimony because she can't support herself and he lost half his stuff. So immediately many flags raised in my head. I asked him why did they give her custody if she can't support the children at all without his help, why not just give him custody since you know, he's actually a good provider/parent? He just said that she's the mom and he's the dad, that's all there is to it. I also asked why the fuck he's paying her lazy ass when they're divorced and he told me he's pretty much paying for the "privilege" of having had her as his wife. Am I the only one that sees something wrong with this? It seems like divorces are extremely one-sided. How the fuck does this worthless woman get everything handed to her while this hard working nice man gets everything taken away? It just seems wrong, am I the only that thinks marriage is a load of shit?
Anonymous
>>8045590 >values feminism created Feminism didn't create the value that women are innate caregivers and that they deserve money from a man just because they did their job as a good woman sitting at home
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>>8045603 >Men don't complain about the Glass Ceiling or about the increased social expectations of women Feminism convinced a lot of fucking guys to do something about them when they were problems that affected mostly women.
The glass ceiling exists for anyone middle class or below. To frame it as a female problem is bigotry at it's fucking paramount.
And to say that women's social expectations are INCREASED from a man's, who has to be a walking masculine archetype or he's a faggot, bitch, you are the problem.
>Don't expect women to complain about how they can get alimony, etc. Exactly.
When you talk about feminism, you aren't talking about gender equality, but women.
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>>8045609 >I'm a queen bitch because I'm a woman right? You're a queen bitch because you feel like you have the ground somehow, to be on the losing side of a debate and condescend to the other person.
Give me a fucking break with your self-righteous bullshit. "You called me a bitch! I'm going to react with the indignity of a God!" Bitch, the days when people took that seriously are gone.
Put up, or shut THE FUCK up.
Anonymous
>>8045653 BTW TerribleNews, I grew up in a household where my dad left my mom for a Filipina immigrant and sued her for alimony. He got 30k of her stock options, didn't cash them in on time, and wasted it. He also received 1,200/month.
Sucks either way basically.
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>>8045686 Overreactions, overreactions everywhere
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>>8045644 >Feminism didn't create the value that women are innate caregivers and that they deserve money from a man just because they did their job as a good woman sitting at home They did put up the value, as much as you'll inevitably try to fight me on this, that men should be supplicant faggots, though.
And that's a pretty significant reason why it's so difficult for us to do shit in the face of women's studies and sexist TV bullshit and court rape and educational bias that starts in our formative years.
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>>8045690 >Give a cool story >Sucks either way basically. Yeah, you sure proved it's not a one-sided problem.
It's not like we counter this kind of "logic" every fucking day on /adv/.
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Fuck marriage. I will never, never marry.
Anonymous
>>8045729 There's a difference between being a supplicant faggot and being rational when it comes to social issues. My boyfriend and I can talk for hours about this kind of shit and then he plows my ass really hard after I cook him a steak. I feel like there were supplicant faggots back in the day too but they found some other issue to be a faggot about. Agreed generally though, but mostly with radical feminists only
Anonymous
>>8045748 >"we" >every fucking day on /adv/ >every day >cool life bro mmmmhmmm
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>>8045780 >There's a difference between being a supplicant faggot and being rational when it comes to social issues. The rational male won't grasp for reasons to be an apologist for female chauvinism.
Anonymous
>>8045813 >black and white Anonymous
>>8045653 I was never defending feminism, just saying that NOBODY complains about things in their favor, not just feminists *shrug*
you do realize you're on a board where people also post topics about how hipster-looking men get all the bitches?
Men just have to comb their hair, wear nice clothes and be confident.
Women have to do those things in makup and heels. Those were the only two things I was talking about. It's not big, but it's there, and people in both genders feel as if they fail at it.
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>>8045798 >argumentum >ad >hominem Everyday women prove their "equality."
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>>8045821 >moderation is ALWAYS key >criticize someone who takes a definite black conclusion Woman logic.
Anonymous
>>8045833 I have TerribleNews for you, TerribleNews:
your misdirected hate will eat you inside and you will age pussyless and then die alone but you're too repressed to admit you like the cock so you'll be dickless too :(
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>>8045853 >appeal to force You're going by the books, word for word.
>“No woman will fuck you with that attitude.” >“Creeps like you will never get laid!” Anonymous
>>8045900 I know, but there's some kernel of truth to it. You're going to be just as unhappy as the radical feminists who point the finger at men as the root of all evil. Stop hatin
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>>8045825 >women have to wear nice clothes >women have to wear high heels >women have to show confidence Women have to wear makeup.
Women have the LATITUDE to do much more, for her own benefit. And things that men have no equivalent of.
But a chick can decide she likes chucks, and can self-deprecate all fucking day and still get laid / in a relationship.
A guy who wears chuck taylors is a fucking faggot, man.
A guy who wears shoes from Payless, which chicks do all the time, is a fucking sped aspie.
I'm not letting this shit pass. It's bullshit from an era that has long been over.
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>>8045911 The truth is what it obscures.
You'll do better treating women unfairly and manipulatively than as a well adjusted, fair person.
Anonymous
>>8045937 I couldn't tell you what shoes came from where. If you can and want to judge people for it, I'm not going to tell you 'no'.
I'm not the ones fucking the girls in "chucks" who have no self-esteem, don't blame me.
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He's a DOCTOR. Long nights, getting called out. The chick sounds like douche but I guess their logic is some parent is better than no parent.
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>>8046033 >I couldn't tell you what shoes came from where. A guy doesn't have that freedom.
>I'm not the ones fucking the girls in "chucks" who have no self-esteem, don't blame me. It's easy for you to be condescending about it, because you're not the one who shoulders the risk and accountability in meeting someone.
"Just have more standards, guys. It's that simple."
You take up the risk of rejection, and see how long the female tendency to date upwards lasts.
Anonymous
>>8046111 You're right, I don't have to do those things(anymore). Because I'm in a relationship that I essentially initiated and I have no interest in, what do the whores you date call it? Looking at the menu?
Anonymous
>>8043431 says the fat girl who will never date
aka the often seen and often avoided feminist.
we hate you- the world
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>>8046141 >(anymore) Bitch, you have no experience with having the responsibility.
Anonymous
>>8044075 you are, the most arrogant feminist ive ever seen
the funniest part about people like you is this:
all the words that come out of your mouth is about how men make treat women unfairly and make prejudice remarks etc, and then you turn around and group all men together and say how terrible we all are. me, i like grouping things together. organization inside my own mind is important, i can keep things straight. so let me put YOU in a group. you are the mindless kind of person who has never seen themselves in a mirror. you are the kind of person who never tries to see something from another perspective, you are the reason you will die alone and full of fear.
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>>8046280 proof read, bro
but LOL
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It's shit like this that makes me not want to marry. Ever. Because I'm not stupid enough to believe that love will last forever, and I don't want to end up shelling out a boatload of money to someone simply because I'm a man and we decided to end our relationship.
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>>8045825 >Men just have to comb their hair, wear nice clothes and be confident. Men are judged more for things they have no control over, like being short, going bald or having an ugly face. While it socially being unacceptable for them to do things to cover up those flaws such as wearing heels(these shoes aren't pretty, they just make you taller), makeup or wigs.
Anonymous
If you guys want equality just avoid meeting women's unrealistic expectations of what they think reality should be like. You only have yourselves and your own desperations to blame. Feminists are already angrily blogging about how men are beginning to "fail" by not pursuing women and by playing video games instead of finding a serious job/profession. The pussy will come to us if we neglect it, it always does! Just look at the "Sexting" Revolution - women couldn't compete against porn on a man's computer so now they all get naked and make nudes & bate vids that end up on motherless just to get our attention.
Anonymous
>>8046155 You can tell yourself that if it makes you feel better, or empowered in some way. It doesn't hurt me, but I will admit to being somewhat confused. You hate me because I DON'T want to leech off of a man? What sense does that make?
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>>8046632 It's that he resents the idea you're framing it like you don't want it, when it's more likely you're holding your deck tighter because you have less to offer than the average chick.
That's all it is.
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>>8046559 >play a video game >gf wants attention and walks in front of the tv in lingerie It works! Too bad I'm not with her anymore.
Anonymous
I actually LOVE the idea of a woman gold-digging on me. It's part of why I'm pursuing a career in pharmacy. I jerk off to the thought of a woman screwing me out of my money. I get my ex girlfriend to sell me her panties for $150 whenever I can. She thinks it's because I have an underwear fetish. Nope. I just can't get enough of women manipulating money out of men with sex. It's like the one true thing about sex in our culture... it's like the one thing about sex that's real, if you're a man.
Anonymous
>>8046752 This is the sickest fetish I ever heard about.
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>>8046702 You really think that any woman who doesn't act like a contemptible slut just "doesn't have much to offer"? Wow.
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You always get a pre-nup... ALWAYS
Anonymous
>>8046767 You say that now but this man has billions of women who will submit to his "fetish."
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43% of marriges end in divorce 65-80% of divorces are started by women Don't marry a western woman. You'll just ruin your life
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>>8046797 It's not so easy.
Women teen to feel gross about it, because anything that outwardly looks like whoring can affect their social status, so they have some defense mechanisms against it. I get my ex to indulge me indirectly, because it's in a way that's discreet as fuck and would embarrass me more if it got out, and because it's in a context that she's helping me with a non-whore related fetish.
So it's tougher in practice than it should be in theory.
Anonymous
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>>8046837 43% of marriages WITHIN A GIVEN YEAR end in divorce, not 43% of all marriages.
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>>8046767 You tell me one truer thing about eroticism in our culture.
Tell me one thing truer than the notion that women exploit men with sex.
My brain coped by accepting it as sex.
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Not saying that the woman is right, but you don't know the situation in their family. My dad is a successful man, he is a bro to all of his friends and always help them when they needed his help. My mom is only highschool graduate. Sound like your friend's, right? However despite not able to find a high paid job, my mom is a much better parent than my dad is. He never does anything for the family and only care about his friends. He'd do anything for his bros but not his family. So yeah, why would anyone get married?
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What?! A social construct devised by the Pagans in order to socially engineer people, and one that has been completely re-defined by hundreds and thousands of different cultures and nations and corporatised all to fuck to nothing less than a business deal is a scam?! Boy.. what a concept..
Anonymous
after years of reading these horror stories on this board and newspapers etc. I am definitely getting pre-nub and as much protection as i can. No bitch taking my kids and cash
Anonymous
>>8047064 Prenub for money is fair enough, but you think any woman would sign a letter letting you have her kid?
lol
Anonymous
>>8047089 im rich i'll just have my lawyer write up some document waving the bitches right to the kids in the case of divorce, and i'll have her sign it before i agree to have kids with her, if no sign then no kids.
that easy son
Anonymous
>>8047153 I guess no women would want to marry or have kids with you if you want them to do that, unless they're some kind of women who only want your money and easy life and no responsibility for children
I mean most women wouldn't want to fuck up their kids unless they don't love their kids at all
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>>8047181 trust me its very easy to find a woman who would agree to these terms. Most women dont plan ahead and think they will never get divorced. I already got a woman who i have is ready to sign these documents.
Anyway how is it fucking up the kids? i only work short hours, i have plenty of money and a nice house. You think it would be better for a court to give a potential ex of mine the kids and i have to pay her to look after them. Hell no i will make sure i have custody full time, i wouldn't cut the mother out she could visit anytime she wanted and have a full role in the kids lives.