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Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 03:52:00 No.5871903 View View Reply Original Report

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how to get more confident with sex?

I hear from many ppl I meet "sex is easier if you don't know the other person too well"

but when I think about having sex just for having sex, I feel a pressure...
like "if they just want to have sex, the will measure me just by my sex performance... and maybe it's bad..."

any ideas how to come over this?

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 03:56:00 No.5871933 Report

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>"sex is easier if you don't know the other person too well"

I completely disagree.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 03:57:00 No.5871945 Report

Quoted By: >>5872009

I have never had sex with some random chick. However, the more sex I have with my girlfriend the better and easier it gets. Every once in a while we'll have a marathon session but generally sex is 5-15 minutes then eat then sleep.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 03:58:00 No.5871965 Report

Quoted By: >>5872043

Practise and booze. Not feeling pressure would probably be easier if you don't care about the other person, but that's not a path you want to go down.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:01:00 No.5872009 Report

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>>5871945

This, in my experience with a couple long-term girlfriends the sex alwasy got better with time.

It allows you to become closer and much more comfortable with each other and then shit gets kinky with dirty talking.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:05:00 No.5872043 Report

Quoted By: >>5872093 >>5872204

>>5871965
how come?

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:07:00 No.5872070 Report

Quoted By: >>5872089

op u wrong sex is so much better when u truly know a person. you know what they like and you feel more at ease.also, im about to find out what it like to have sex with a total stranger. my wife has set up a threesome for us this friday night. to be truthful im a lil scaried but fuck it im getting some threeway action.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:09:00 No.5872089 Report

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>>5872070
>>5872070
this is also the first time i have ever tried anything like this.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:09:00 No.5872093 Report

Quoted By: >>5872130 >>5872182

>>5872043

Because unless you become an emotionless waste of life you might actually want to have a meaningful relationship at some point in your life. If your entire sex life up until that point has been chasing a high you will probably develop eight thousand kinks to force sex to feel good instead of just allowing it to feel good.

Generally, when you want to settle down, you don't want to settle down with the sluts you have been banging for 10-15 years so you go for a normal chick who finds your kinks repulsive. Now you're in a relationship with a woman who finds your sexuality completely off putting and you can't get off but you stick with it for a while, maybe have a kid and then end up cheating/breaking up with her and fucking up both your lives and your child's.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:13:00 No.5872130 Report

Quoted By: >>5872142

>>5872093
>>5872093
i found me a great girl . and the sex is very good been married over 15 years

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:14:00 No.5872142 Report

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>>5872130

I was answering the "how come?" for you.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:18:00 No.5872182 Report

Quoted By: >>5872299 >>5872347

>>5872093
I have a gf and already had some friends with benefits beneath her, but those were friends and I still felt this pressure when I had the first time with them...

just want to get over this feeling...

my last gf even wanted a threesome with me and another girl, but I chickened out :\

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:18:00 No.5872184 Report

Quoted By: >>5872204

>>5872142
>>5872142
how come what

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:20:00 No.5872204 Report

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>>5872184
HNNNG!!
>>5872043

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:23:00 No.5872240 Report

Quoted By: >>5872254

op all i can say is try to be yourself and relax. sex should not about pressure and all that. it should be a mutaul stress relief.and a feeling of oneness with a another human.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:24:00 No.5872254 Report

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>>5872240
>>5872240
also choose your patners wisely

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:29:00 No.5872299 Report

Quoted By: >>5872319

>>5872182
>>5872182
my last gf even wanted a threesome with me and another girl, but I chickened out :\

to poster of this post all i can say is haha.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:30:00 No.5872319 Report

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>>5872299

D:<

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:34:00 No.5872347 Report

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>>5872182
>>5872182
>>5872182
have fun at life....u beta as hell

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 03 May 2011 04:36:00 No.5872363 Report

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If you're just hooking up with a chick then just tell yourself that it doesn't matter because you'll never see her again after tonight.

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