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I'm a rapist, what do?

Anonymous !!mgMKicKl27e Fri 20 May 2011 16:48:00 No.6116168 View View Reply Original Report

Quoted By: >>6116178 >>6116183 >>6116262 >>6116468 >>6116519 >>6116634 >>6116707 >>6116807 >>6116855 >>6117236 >>6117501 >>6117537

>a friend calls in the middle of the night
>she's scared of her creepy neighbor
>her bf is on vacation in Germany or something
>I pass by
>I go and talk to the neighbor, he's crazy but harmless
>suddenly I'm a knight in shining armor

>till that point all is good

>I want to leave but the fucking subway is closed
>she offers me to stay
>okay nice, we watch a movie
>she clings on my hard cause she's scared of zombies
>she's in her sexy pajamas
>being the dumbass I am, I misread ther signals
>I make a move
>ie jump on her and crunch her under my weight. I'm not very good at it
>she's too surprised to react
>finally she tries to push me away
>my brain is off, I keep going
>I take her pants off and penetrate her
>it lasts for I think 10 minutes maybe less
>a few seconds after I ejaculate, the truth hits me
>I just raped her

>she's in shock, doesn't say a word
>I babble and leave, I walk on the streets and call a cab
>it's now the morning, I freak out and asks for advice here

I don't know what I should do. I ruined her life and probablu mine too. Pic related, where I'll be soon.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 16:50:00 No.6116174 Report

Quoted By: >>6116194

You're fucked.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 16:51:00 No.6116178 Report

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>>6116168
>she clings on my HARM
fixed
freudian slip, I was hard

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 16:51:00 No.6116179 Report

Quoted By: >>6116194

You stupid motherfucker

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 16:52:00 No.6116183 Report

Quoted By: >>6116194

>>6116168
did she scream and say no? did you hit her? was she unconscious?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 16:53:00 No.6116186 Report

Quoted By: >>6116218

>freudian slip, I was hard

You are too smart to be sexually active. It was just a dream.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 16:53:00 No.6116187 Report

Quoted By: >>6116218

yeap enjoy jail time. I mean you can alway tray a hail hairy and convice her or the courts that she wanted it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 16:53:00 No.6116189 Report

Quoted By: >>6116218

If you didn't leave any physical bruising, and if she isn't physically harmed in anyway, then you won't be there for the rest of your life. You didn't murder her afterwards. You didn't tie her up, etc. You'll probably be able to prove that you didn't "really" want to hurt her, but what you did is still extremely fucked up.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 16:55:00 No.6116194 Report

Quoted By: >>6116202

>>6116174
>>6116179
Yeah I know. any advice, please? Should I go to the police and plead guilty or something, does that reduce the jail time?

>>6116183
She tried to talk but I kissed her a lot and I didn't pay attention. She didn't scream. I didn't hit her but I held her down on the couch quite strongly. I don't think I harmed her, or at least not intentionally. No she was conscious the whole time I think, except afterward she looked absent and kind of scary.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 16:56:00 No.6116202 Report

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>>6116194
>boner

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 16:56:00 No.6116206 Report

Quoted By: >>6116241

You could try leaving a note saying you're sorry and that you're going to turn yourself in to the police, but do NOT try to contact her in person. TURN YOURSELF IN.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 16:58:00 No.6116217 Report

Quoted By: >>6116241

Leave a note for her saying you're sorry and that you're going ot turn yourself it.

Then run away to start a new life in New Orleans. If you're already IN New Orleans, start a new life Minneapolis. You can be a card sharp or something.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 16:58:00 No.6116218 Report

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>>6116186
It was actually the first time in months, maybe even a year.
>>6116187
She didn't give consent and from her reaction I can tell she didn't want it. I don't know what the FUCK I had in mind doing that to her. I can't believe I raped a girl, and a nice one at that, I genuinely like her. FUCK.

>>6116189
Thank you. I'll try to look up the possible prison sentence. And I do know how fucked up and horrible that is. Shit.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 16:59:00 No.6116221 Report

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Yeah you misread the whole situation dude, you are a guy she trusted, someone she felt safe around. You betrayed that trust, and her with what you did. That said, don't say anything to the cops if they come, they will try to get you to incriminate yourself. They will lock you in a room for hours to "interview" you (interview is just the politically correct way of saying interrogate). Don't go anywhere with them unless they have a warrant, etc. You dun goofed OP and you probably won't ever be able to repair your relationship with her ever again, I personally hope you rot in prison, but your rights to a fair trial are important so.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 16:59:00 No.6116223 Report

Quoted By: >>6116241

You dumbass this isnt a porno. Shouldve kissed her first, laying it all in one shot. Idiot.

I got trolled.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:04:00 No.6116240 Report

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When I was reading that, I'm sure you said somewhere you're black.
But now I can't see it when I read back.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:04:00 No.6116241 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116206
>>6116217
So should I text her then go to the police? And what should I say? Rape, sexual assault?
I picture my mother's reaction to this.. oh jesus fucking christ..
>>6116223
The thing is, I tried to control myself for the longest time, like an hour or so. I had a crush on her since forever. She was half naked, against me, her head on my chest at every SHOCK moment. I was in maximum erection mode. And eventually I just lost it and jumped on her like a stupid horny dog.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:04:00 No.6116242 Report

Quoted By: >>6116253 >>6116287 >>6116291

No, don't apologize. Where you fucked up was by leaving; you should have at least cuddled with her, or eaten her out.

Send her a text asking her what she's doing with a smiley face at the end, then ask if she wants to hook up tonight.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:06:00 No.6116253 Report

Quoted By: >>6116291

>>6116242
what that guy said. it'll be a rape if you aknowledge it as rape. and I mean that for her too, if you act casual there's a chance she won't take it badly. at least try it and she accuses you of rape, just explain you didn't realize it was rape for her.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:06:00 No.6116255 Report

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OP, she probably planned on having sex with you.

Just, ya know, she probably didn't plan on you treating her like a side of beef and forcing her to sit there while you fucked her. In any case, if it wasn't her plan to claim you raped her before, then she probably still won't unless her boyfriend finds out she screwed you.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:06:00 No.6116258 Report

Quoted By: >>6116291

I think you did rape her, but she probably won't press any charges or tell anyone for that matter.

The best thing you can do is call her and tell her that you realized what a huge mistake you made and you leave it up to her how your life continues.

Another possibility is that she just thought it was kinky sex and then when you suddenly left she was like "wtf?" It is seriously possible that she doesn't realize that you kind of raped her. It does sound like she was sending you signals.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:07:00 No.6116260 Report

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I sincerely hope OP is trolling, if not, this is all terribly depressing.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:07:00 No.6116262 Report

Quoted By: >>6116291

>>6116168
what's your relationship with her? did she knew you wanted to fuck her? because from her attitude I'd say she wanted it or at least wanted to tease you.
also important: was she wet?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:09:00 No.6116273 Report

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uh lol what this dude is pretty bad but the bitch shouldn't've been snuggling with the op in the first place???

women don't have a right to turn male sexual desire on and off like a spigot, and sure as hell not when they're already spoken for anyway

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:09:00 No.6116275 Report

Quoted By: >>6116283 >>6116302

How the fuck does that happen? I mean, my boyfriend and I have been having sex every day for a year so it's not like we need practice, but if we were on a couch, we would still have to do some maneuvering and co-operation for him to be able to penetrate me. I don't get how you could get her jeans/panties off and get inside her without her putting up a fight if she didn't want it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:10:00 No.6116283 Report

Quoted By: >>6116301 >>6116302 >>6116843

>>6116275
I choked her a little, and then I was kneeling on the floor with most of her on the couch.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:11:00 No.6116287 Report

Quoted By: >>6116302

>>6116242
DO NOT DO THAT

if text, tell her you are sorry, and would really like to make a move toward forgiveness. tell her you'd do aything to be forgiven, that you know you broke her trust in you, but ask her for another chance to show you are a good guy and you didn't want any of these

if cops : Do not say ANYTHING until your lawyer is there. Tell the whole story to the lawyer, he'll tell you what you can and cannot say to the cops.
Le lawyer is your FRIEND. Trust him

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:11:00 No.6116291 Report

Quoted By: >>6116324

>>6116242
>>6116253
I don't know. It seemed like rape to me right after, so I think it really was. And she didn't act casual, she acted like a traumatized victim, in shock.

>>6116258
I hope you're right. So you say I should try to talk to her, see what she thinks and explain myself?

>>6116262
We've been friends for a year I think. We met at uni, I kind of hit on her but she already had a bf. She friendzoned me and we had a lot of fun together, she told me a lot of personal stuff too. I think I was her best friend, or something close. I guess I was "non-threatening guy" and that's why she called me.

I don't have a lot of sexual experience, but I didn't find her dry. I sure was lubrificating though, so maybe she was.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:12:00 No.6116293 Report

Quoted By: >>6116313

Right now she's probably just really confused why you left without saying anything after fucking. Come up with a good excuse for that and everything will be fine and you might even get to bang her again. I assure you, she doesn't think that you raped her.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:13:00 No.6116299 Report

Quoted By: >>6116313

i also don't think this sounds like rape at all, some girls are just really fuckheaded and reticent when it comes to sex (come on dude, she's not so naive to invite you over for really no reason, get you to watch a film together etc etc in the middle of the night)

she probably had second thoughts. you don't sound like a criminal in any case

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:15:00 No.6116301 Report

Quoted By: >>6116313 >>6116316 >>6116336

>>6116283
To have sex with a girl who genuinely doesn't want to, you would have to use quite a bit of force. Even if she's very weak, she can still make things incredibly awkward for you. Even regular consenting couples have to co-operate for penetration to work. So yeah, either you full on raped her and don't deserve any help, or she wanted to have sex with you. You can't sort of rape someone.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:15:00 No.6116302 Report

Quoted By: >>6116319 >>6116320 >>6116361

>>6116275
She had a pajama short, I just took it off down her leggs. I'm a very big guy and she's small. Other than that, I don't know what to tell you. She didn't really fight except at the beginning when she tried to push me away with her hands on my chest and belly.

>>6116283
That wasn't me. Bad trolling dude.

>>6116287
Thanks. I'll keep that in mind, and for the lawyer too.
I thought about it and I think I should contact her before going to the police, test the water.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:16:00 No.6116307 Report

Quoted By: >>6116313 >>6116341

She was probably more in shock that she cheated. Don't say rape, don't mention rape, don't even put that idea into her head. Just tell her you're a virgin and flipped out and ran or some shit.

Jorgen von Strangle !!mgMKicKl27e

Jorgen von Strangle !!mgMKicKl27e Fri 20 May 2011 17:16:00 No.6116309 Report

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Is one of your parents a monkey?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:18:00 No.6116313 Report

Quoted By: >>6116337

>>6116293
>>6116299
>>6116301
>>6116307
THIS
You couldn't have done that without her consent. After the sex she was probably tired/upset/something.
DO NOT SAY TO ANYONE YOU RAPED HER, except if she says so.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:18:00 No.6116316 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116301
>You can't sort of rape someone.
Maybe you can....

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:18:00 No.6116317 Report

Quoted By:

ITT we help a rapist

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:18:00 No.6116319 Report

Quoted By: >>6116843

>>6116302
Fuck you, I get paid to troll. I'm a professional. I don't tell you how to rape, buddy.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:19:00 No.6116320 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116302
You know when someone is in shock, the adrenaline flows through their body, they would do more than pushing.. Right?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:20:00 No.6116324 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116291
>I hope you're right. So you say I should try to talk to her, see what she thinks and explain myself?
First you should come up with a decent excuse for why you suddenly left. In case she doesn't think you raped her.
If she does think you raped her, you should probably say things like this:
>I thought you wanted it too
>I'm so sorry
>I got scared of myself, that's why I suddenly had to leave
>Thought about suicide on the way home because I felt like a monster
>never wanna feel like that again

etc. Even if it's lies. If you can convince this girl that it was as bad for you as it was for her, there's still a chance that she'll actually like you again.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:20:00 No.6116325 Report

Quoted By: >>6116345

Dude wat
Even if she liked you, she probably wanted you to kiss her and tell her you liked her too, not immediately start fucking..
Why do people assume signals like that automatically mean girls want to fuck? The vast majority of girls who aren't whores will NEVER want to fuck right away. It will take multiple dates and bonding before it would even be considered.
I have some sympathy since you sound genuinely sorry and there was no malicious intent but OP, you were a guy she trusted and possibly even liked a little and you just smashed all that and raped her. She's going to be pretty fucked up now, I hope you realise.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:21:00 No.6116333 Report

Quoted By: >>6116350

So any of you here actually have any experience with women? Or are you just reasoning from theory?

This matter require a man of great judgment and long experience.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:21:00 No.6116336 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116301
Okay you're making me doubt. For the record, I told the whole story honestly. I'm not making it better or worse than it was. Maybe she waited for something, or just got along with it?

Wait, no, that doesn't add up. She didn't respond to my kiss. She tried to push me, and almost the whole time she was tense and twirling.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:21:00 No.6116337 Report

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>>6116313
Nope nope nope nope.

The "freeze" reaction is VERY common in victims of sexual assault. The OP has mentioned she's a small girl and he's a very big guy. After trying and failing to push him away, don't you think it's a plausible reaction that she thought he was going to rape her no matter what, and didn't want to get hurt so just stopped fighting?

Or she could have just froze up. It's a natural reaction.

I know it sounds like she was teasing him, that does make her a bitch, but he still fucking raped her. Whether or not she deserved it, I'm not the judge, but the OP is still a rapist.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:22:00 No.6116341 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116307

This. Play it cool.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:23:00 No.6116345 Report

Quoted By: >>6116388

>>6116325
>The vast majority of girls who aren't whores will NEVER want to fuck right away.
What the fuck are you doing on 4chan?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:23:00 No.6116348 Report

Quoted By:

You should call her up and be like "Hey... about last night. I don't think we can hook up anymore, it doesn't feel right because you have a boyfriend. I hope you understand. See ya"

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:24:00 No.6116350 Report

Quoted By: >>6116367

>>6116333
I'm married. I was in a four year relationship with a different chick before I married my wife.

Even if she ends up claiming you raped her, it isn't the case. Ten seconds of resistance does not a rape make. She wanted it, just probably not like that.

Don't say rape, bro. Talk to her and test the water, chances are she doesn't look at it that way and the last thing you want to do is be like, 'Oh you can just say I raped you and get away scott-free with cheating btw.'

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:24:00 No.6116351 Report

Quoted By:

If she even thinks that maybe it might have been rape somehow, it's only because you left right away without saying anything.

She was clearly planning to have sex with you that night. She just didn't quite expect it to happen like it did.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:24:00 No.6116354 Report

Quoted By: >>6116369

I don't know what to think anymore OP. And I love it, this is just like Law & Order. Did you save her from the creepy guy, or did you abuse her? Are you a hero or a villain? Did you rape her.. or did SHE raped YOU?

MORE TWISTS!!!

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:25:00 No.6116359 Report

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"Dear >girl<, I don't know what came over me last night. Only after I finished I realised what I did. I panicked. Something just took control over me, something I couldn't stop."

Don't use logic when near women. Use mystery and emotion.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:26:00 No.6116361 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116302
yeah, contact her before... Try to fix the problem with her. Tell her the truth.

i had a similar prob with a girl 3 yrs ago, and i made the mistake of NOT talking to her... That led me to 8h of interogation, bad shit...

Really try to act as an adult, and talk to her;

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:26:00 No.6116365 Report

Quoted By:

OP here, I'm going to text her and see how she feels like. What should I text?

Also, just to be clear: if I did rape her as it looks like now, I will not try to get away with her. I'll face the consequences.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:26:00 No.6116367 Report

Quoted By: >>6116381 >>6116412

>>6116350
It IS the case. If she didn't not give consent and resisted, it's rape. Try using your argument in front of a jury and see how far it gets you.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:27:00 No.6116369 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116354
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVQ0MXp-8ds

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:27:00 No.6116372 Report

Quoted By: >>6116379

I'm archiving this. It's just so hilarious how beta OP actually is.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:28:00 No.6116379 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116372
so raping is beta now? or is it having a conscience?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:28:00 No.6116381 Report

Quoted By: >>6116416

>>6116367

Nobody needs to get a jury involved. It sounds like what happened was vague enough that OP can bullshit his way out of it if he plays it super cool, like a boss.

OP, do you feel super cool?

Like a boss?

Rage Emitting Diode !RaGERRuxPQ

Rage Emitting Diode !RaGERRuxPQ Fri 20 May 2011 17:29:00 No.6116384 Report

Quoted By: >>6116411

Assuming this isn't a troll...

You fucked up by leaving, OP.

If you'd stayed and cuddled with her it would not only have looked a lot better for you in court - it would have gone a long way to making her feel comfortable with what just happened.

That said, I don't think she will press charges against you.

I suggest apologizing for leaving like that and that you suddenly felt awful for her boyfriend.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:29:00 No.6116388 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116345
I honestly don't know sometimes

Castrol !fxPOl/bn4E

Castrol !fxPOl/bn4E Fri 20 May 2011 17:32:00 No.6116406 Report

Quoted By:

The question is... did she ever ask/tell you to stop?

If she didn't, then you had no idea it was unwanted and you can't fix what people don't tell you about. Say you just got in the moment and the two of you fucked, and then you were shocked you just banged your good friend and didn't know what to do next, so you left like a Beta.

But remember: If she never asked/told you to stop, then you technically did nothing wrong. You are not a mind reader.

Finally; Say as little as possible. I mean it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:32:00 No.6116407 Report

Quoted By: >>6116418 >>6116422 >>6116430

OP here, thank you all for you advices. I'm writing a text atm, but I really don't know how to phrase it. Should I say "Sorry I ran out like that, how are you feeling?"

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:32:00 No.6116411 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116384
>I suggest apologizing for leaving like that and that you suddenly felt awful for her boyfriend.

This is probably the best possible option.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:32:00 No.6116412 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116367
To a court and jury, yeah, sure. Every bitch that ever regretted having sex was raped. Every bitch that cheated and got caught was raped.

In reality? This bitch gave the customary moment of 'Oh nooooo I sure don't want to cheat' before fucking the guy.

I don't mean to be a misogynist here, but bitches and whores man.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:33:00 No.6116416 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116381

I laughted my ass off, not sure why

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:33:00 No.6116417 Report

Quoted By:

go talk to her, if you're lucky she wont press charges

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:34:00 No.6116418 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116407
"Hey, sorry i ran out like that, i didn't expect that to happen and i feel bad for your boyfriend, how are you feeling?"

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:34:00 No.6116422 Report

Quoted By: >>6116428 >>6116448

>>6116407
be more mysterious as said before
"hey;;; I really don't nkow what happened last night, i freaked out, i never felt so bad before... i hope you are all right... Maybe we could talk about this ? :-S"

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:36:00 No.6116428 Report

Quoted By: >>6116439

>>6116422
This, without the smiley though.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:36:00 No.6116430 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116407
Tell her that you felt really bad for fucking another guy's girlfriend.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:36:00 No.6116431 Report

Quoted By:

>bitches and whores man

Don't forget to compliment her. They love that shit.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:38:00 No.6116439 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116428

Be sure to include a ;)

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:39:00 No.6116448 Report

Quoted By: >>6116477

>>6116422
This is a subtle way of implying you did something wrong other than helping her cheat on her boyfriend, don't do it. You pretty much raped her but if she doesn't see it that way then no harm, no foul. Unless you put the idea in her head that she was raped she might not think it and won't have to suffer through the trauma she'll associate with it.
Just tell her you feel bad for cheating with her on her boyfriend and you panicked about it, and ask if she's okay or wants to talk

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:40:00 No.6116456 Report

Quoted By: >>6116498 >>6116603

>I think I was her best friend, or something close. I guess I was "non-threatening guy" and that's why she called me.
Y'know, if she does see this as rape, which she should, because you raped her, she's not going to trust anyone ever again. You're a complete knob and you can go fuck yourself, but at least you're trying to take responsibility for it. You're the best rapist I've ever heard of.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:41:00 No.6116464 Report

Quoted By:

If she didn't actually say "No", then what exactly is the problem? Is she mute? Otherwise it sounds like implied consent.

Basically as a stronger personality you just Dominated a weaker personality is all.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:42:00 No.6116468 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116168
>>6116168
turn yourself in and explain what happened, it's the best you can do. Turn yourself in before she calls the police becos then you are fucked

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:47:00 No.6116477 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116448
This.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:47:00 No.6116481 Report

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OP, go to the police. If you turn yourself in, it's three years, maybe even less. If she might not report you, but if she does then it will be a LOT higher. Do the right thing.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:47:00 No.6116484 Report

Quoted By:

op tell us what happens

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:48:00 No.6116486 Report

Quoted By: >>6116516

"Sorry I panicked and left last night, I know you're in a relationship and i don't want to hurt your boyfriend or get between you, do you want to talk about this? I feel so bad.."

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:48:00 No.6116494 Report

Quoted By:

This thread is soul-crushing

>idontwanttoliveonthisplanetanymore.jpg

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:48:00 No.6116496 Report

Quoted By: >>6116516

OP, go to the police, turn yourself in and get a lawyer. If you plead guilty first, you will get a minimal sentence. If she reports you though, it's gonna be 3-10 years. Do it for the girl. Don't text her.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:48:00 No.6116498 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116456
Troll.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:49:00 No.6116505 Report

Quoted By: >>6116559

"Sorry I panicked and left last night, I know you're in a relationship and i don't want to hurt your boyfriend or get between you, do you want to talk about this? I feel so bad.."

This tells her that you feel guilty about it, but that you thought it was just consensual sex between friends. It also implies you feel it is a mistake and lets her know you care about her, and her relationship. By asking her if she wants to talk about it, you give her a way of telling you she wants to drop it and pretend it didn't happen, which is probably the best option here.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:51:00 No.6116516 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116486
>>6116496
>>6116496
do this.
someone from work was in a similar situation, he turned himself in, the police contacted the "victim/female" and it turned out she liked him, so it was not rape, and he was free to go

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:52:00 No.6116519 Report

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>>6116168
even if she was coming onto you
how do you go from some feeling to jumping on her and taking pants off?
you respond in kind, if she doesn't react negatively you continue from there

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:55:00 No.6116537 Report

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I think op has paid too much attention to the
>she wants to fuck
meme.

On the other hand, pro fucking alpha move op. You got friendzoned, so you rapezoned her. Way to show her who's the man and not take any of her bullshit!

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 17:56:00 No.6116540 Report

Quoted By: >>6116558 >>6116760

OP here. Sorry I was on the phone with my mother. Yeah, how beta.

I sent Akemi a text. "Sorry I ran out like that, I felt bad about what we did. How are you feeling?" like 5 minutes ago, she didn't answer yet.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:01:00 No.6116558 Report

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>>6116540

bad text dude, baaaaad text

send her a follow up immediately explaining you never thought of yourself as a cheater, and you hate the fact that you've probably ruined the relationship between her and her boyfriend

DON'T MAKE THIS ABOUT 'what we did' or 'sorry for what happened', that makes it sound like rape for fucks sake.

Tell her you have incredibly strong feelings for her, and that you're sorry you've fucked up her relationship with her boyfriend, that you felt like the worst person in the world and had to clear your head.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:01:00 No.6116559 Report

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She probably did want to have sex with you but not like that, and then the whole thing happened too fast for her brain to process the "oh shit, is he actually gonna rape me? GET THE FUCK OFF" part.

Do something like this-
>>6116505

Communicate that you feel shitty and care about her as a person and would like to make it better. Don't suggest that she think of it as rape if she's not already thinking of it that way, though. Contact her now, the longer you wait the worse it will be.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:03:00 No.6116566 Report

Quoted By: >>6116582 >>6116586

She just replied "fuck u dont talk to me"

Okay, I'm fucked. Time to turn myself in.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:04:00 No.6116570 Report

Quoted By: >>6116574

OP, just say that you're sorry about what happened and that it was an accident. Try to talk her into making it seem like she wanted it too. If she mentions rape say you were under the impression that she did want to have sex.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:04:00 No.6116574 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116570
Oh and OP, don't forget, we're here for you, we're your brothers.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:05:00 No.6116582 Report

Quoted By: >>6116629

>>6116566
enjoy jail
call a lawyer before going to the cops
try to stay out of trouble once you're in jail
oh and make it clear during the trial that you did not rape her intentionally

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:05:00 No.6116586 Report

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>>6116566
DO NOT TURN YOURSELF IN YOU IDIOT.

Chances are still that she won't press charges.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:08:00 No.6116603 Report

Quoted By: >>6116608 >>6116629

>>6116456
>You're the best rapist I've ever heard of.
I agree. OP, do turn yourself in. And try to express to the victim how truly sorry you are. I was raped and god I wish that bastard had human feelings like remorse.

To the people saying he couldn't have raped her that easily, yes he could. Sometimes you just freeze.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:08:00 No.6116608 Report

Quoted By: >>6116618

>>6116603
Then how is he supposed to know that he was raping her if she didn't resist due to the freezing?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:10:00 No.6116618 Report

Quoted By: >>6116630

>>6116608
He shouldn't have held her down. He said himself he didn't listen to what she was saying, so it is possible she said no. I am not saying he is a complete monster, but he obviously did rape that poor girl.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:12:00 No.6116629 Report

Quoted By: >>6116657

>>6116582
Yes, I'm looking for a lawyer right now. I'm not rich so, yeah.
>>6116603
I will, if she accepts to listen to me. I'm trying to accept the fact that my life is ruined, at least for a few years. The thing that worries me the most is my mother and sister's reactions.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:12:00 No.6116630 Report

Quoted By: >>6116648

>>6116618

I hold my girlfriend down when we're having sex too. Although I am not rejecting that OP most likely raped her.

It is unfortunate though, I actually feel sorry for OP and that's the first time that has happened to me on this website

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:13:00 No.6116634 Report

Quoted By: >>6116649

>>6116168
>>my brain is off, I keep going
yeah, see this is the point that you went from friend to rapist. see how it involved a lack of thought? that's the sign of a human devolving into an animal. you're probably on par with niggers now. congratulations.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:15:00 No.6116648 Report

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>>6116630
same here I actually feel for him and I'm a girl
he got me at "oh god what will my mother think of me now"

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:15:00 No.6116649 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116634
>Mfw OP is black

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:17:00 No.6116655 Report

Quoted By:

OP failed at being a human being.

Kill yourself now...
If you don't, your fellow inmates surely will, after raping your own butthole.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:17:00 No.6116657 Report

Quoted By: >>6116700 >>6116734

>>6116629
>I'm trying to accept the fact that my life is ruined, at least for a few years.
Sorry to tell you, but it's for life. You'd get put on the sex offenders register and then you are fucked. My best advice, and I'm only telling you because I get the feeling that she kinda encouraged it and, well, bitches and whores and all that. But ADMIT NOTHING. As far as you're concerned, you both consented to sex. Do NOT go to the police, there's a good chance she won't bring it up again. DO NOT tell anyone. DO NOT put anything in writing (no texts). If you want to talk to her about it, go see her and talk to her, but don't frame it as rape. Just say things got out of control, and you know she has a boyfriend, and you're sorry things went further. Or whatever. But don't even mention rape.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:18:00 No.6116662 Report

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OP, when you get out of jail you'll have a fine career ahead of you going to colleges to give speeches to freshman boys about how to not be a dumbass like you were.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:20:00 No.6116677 Report

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"I'm really, really sorry about what happened. I misread your signals, and the last thing I wanted was to hurt you or come between you and [Boyfriend]. I understand if you're not ready to talk in person yet, but is there anything at all I can do?"

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:21:00 No.6116686 Report

Quoted By: >>6116744

OP, I think it's very brave to go and report yourself. But do it carefully, stay with your lawyer, the cops will try to get you to blame yourself for more than you really did.

Remember that you did not have the INTENT to rape her.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:22:00 No.6116690 Report

Quoted By:

Disappear. Your life is over where you are. Even if she doesn't report it, you're going to forever feel fucked. Move far away and start over.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:23:00 No.6116699 Report

Quoted By:

Congrats Mister Goodfriend, you ruined both your lives for ten fucking minutes of bad sex.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:23:00 No.6116700 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116657
>OP feels remorse and wants to do the right thing
>Piece of shit anon tries to talk him out of it by making excuses/ trying to justify his wrongdoing and partially blaming the friend who trusted him

Nope. Fuck off. Kudos to you, OP, for wanting to turn yourself in. Making the right choice isn't always the choice that saves your skin.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:24:00 No.6116707 Report

Quoted By: >>6116736 >>6117237

>>6116168
OP, if she wants you should turn yourself in.
But it might be that she is shocked and terrified and want nothing more than to leave it behind her and get over it. Maybe she doesn't want people to know about it.

It is imperative that you manage to speak about it somehow, either offer straight out in a text to turn yourself, or ask to talk to her. You could offer meeting her in a public place if she is worried.

I honestly think I myself would have texted something like "I fucked up. I know. I can turn myself in, but I don't want to hurt you more than I already have, so I'll do whatever you want me to do. Either the police or I can promise to be out of your life forever."

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:25:00 No.6116708 Report

Quoted By: >>6116728

Do not go to the cops. Do you have any idea how fucking many rapes go unreported anyway? There's a good chance she won't report it. If she does, you should own up immediately, but it's up to her. Having the police show up to question her when she wanted to try and forget the whole thing would just make it worse, really.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:26:00 No.6116728 Report

Quoted By: >>6116736

>>6116708
This.
OP, let us know what you're doing.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:27:00 No.6116734 Report

Quoted By: >>6116760

>>6116657
>Nope. Fuck off. Kudos to you, OP, for wanting to turn yourself in. Making the right choice isn't always the choice that saves your skin.
We're not even sure she considers it rape though. He should probably talk to her before doing anything.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:27:00 No.6116736 Report

Quoted By: >>6116761 >>6116771

>>6116728
I found a lawyer, I'm thinking about what to tell him exactly now.
Maybe I'll do that:
>>6116707
first.

Again, thanks to everyone who posted itt.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:28:00 No.6116744 Report

Quoted By: >>6116786

>>6116686
>Remember that you did not have the INTENT to rape her.
>implying that matters in a rape case
he'll still get the book thrown at him. it's not a gang rape planned out from woe to go, but it's definitely a few years in a serious "fuck you in the ass" prison.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:31:00 No.6116760 Report

Quoted By: >>6116780 >>6116786

>>6116734
she texted him to fuck off.
>>6116540
>Akemi
is she japanese? I get it now. hot lil'asian chick.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:31:00 No.6116761 Report

Quoted By: >>6116786

>>6116736
OP; let us know how it goes if possible.
It is not often somebody get's people around here to actually care.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:32:00 No.6116771 Report

Quoted By: >>6116786

>>6116736
>I found a lawyer, I'm thinking about what to tell him exactly now.
Be honest. A lawyer's job is to get you off the charge. They don't care about anything else.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:33:00 No.6116780 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116760
>she texted him to fuck off.
Oh, fair enough. Yeah he's fucked. Literally.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:34:00 No.6116786 Report

Quoted By: >>6116834 >>6116838

>>6116744
Yeah, I need to figure out something to get out of prison alive.
>>6116760
She is, but I'm not going to justify it by saying "she's hot lol".

>>6116761
Thank you. Will do as long as possible.

>>6116771
I'm planning to be completly honest yes. But it's not really clear in my head right now.

Bitchtits

Bitchtits Fri 20 May 2011 18:35:00 No.6116797 Report

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You deserve to go to jail and get raped in prison. Then you'll know what it feels like and what you did to her. Turn yourself in, and admit your guilt.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:36:00 No.6116799 Report

Quoted By: >>6116861

What was happening in your head while you were fucking her? What was she doing?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:37:00 No.6116807 Report

Quoted By: >>6116861

>>6116168
I've read the whole thread, quite entertaining.

I'm having trouble with the logistics though. Did you do it in the missionary position? How and when did you undress her? Was she really unwilling? Sounds weird.

Also, in this thread at least you come off as a normal person, no stranger to moral. How the fuck did you turn into a rapist suddenly?

Castrol !fxPOl/bn4E

Castrol !fxPOl/bn4E Fri 20 May 2011 18:39:00 No.6116816 Report

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OP GOD DAMMIT I SAID TO KEEP YOUR FUCKING MOUTH SHUT.

You say NOTHING until you are confronted, and then do EXACTLY and I fucking said to fucking do and you might get out of this.

I asked you, "Did she say/ask you to stop," and I don't see an answer, so stop fucking offering information. Close your god damned trap and fucking move on with your fucking life before you end up with some nigger burried in your ass - unless, of course, that's what you want.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:40:00 No.6116823 Report

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so i invited this guy over to keep the creepy stalker across the street away. He comes over with some stupid fucking zombie movie to watch. I say sure put on an old t shirt and a pair of sweats and watch this thing with him. I fall asleep on his stomach but jump every time he laughs at the fucking zombies.
We lock eyes and he tries to kiss me. I try to tell him his breath smells like doritos, but he just forces his tounge into my mouth. He rubs up against me and i can feel his errection through his basket ball shorts. I reach down to touch it and he cums.

He instantly backs off and babbles something about having to go. he runs home

i grab my vibrator.

MFW he texts me all embarassed about premature ejaculating on himself.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:40:00 No.6116824 Report

Quoted By: >>6116859

Deny everything. If you didn't leave any bruises on her body or physically hurt her she can't prove it. Just say she's a crazy bitch who cheated on her bf then regret it later. Remember deny everything. If you're senstenced for rape your fucked.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:41:00 No.6116834 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116786

He'll see it this way, she didn't say no, she didn't fight you off. But on the other hand, the way you left implies guilt, which implies you realised it was rape. You'll really have to push that guilt for cheating on her boyfriend.

You also didn't get explicit consent, but if you explain the long term relationship and have proof of any evidence of feelings (old emails, letters, texts) that kind of stuff, you could be in a good position.

Ultimately, it was rape, sorry, but you will get a conviction. If it's not a judge who has to make a point (and if it's a female judge, well shit, you're utterly fucked), and your lawyer does a good job, I'd expect you to be out on your first parole. That could be as early as a year.

Think of prison as some development time, work on your sexual emotions so you don't do this again. Take the time to study as well, it's a year with free library access and no reason not to study.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:41:00 No.6116835 Report

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>Girl is scared of crazy neighbor because he may rape her
>Call friend for help
>Turns out friend rapes her
Hahaha, oh wow

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:42:00 No.6116838 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116786
call your lawyer and tell him the story asap
show him this thread, it might even help
he'll ask you questinos, and tell you what to do

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:43:00 No.6116843 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116319
i fucking laughed my ass off at this. you're a legend, whoever you are. i kind of thought >>6116283 was a troll but wasn't really sure, but it doesn't even matter because that was fucking funny, too.

seriously though OP you're fucking retarded. if a girl pushes you away, that means fucking STOP.
it doesn't mean you have to kill the mood - all you have to do is just smile a little, be like, "what's up?", listen to her chat for a bit about whatever is on her mind, and then seduce her again.
you are a big clutz, dude

Castrol !fxPOl/bn4E

Castrol !fxPOl/bn4E Fri 20 May 2011 18:43:00 No.6116849 Report

Quoted By: >>6116871

God fucking dammit, OP, did you fucking text her? That's fucking EVIDENCE against your god damned case.

God fucking DAMMIT, OP, you went and you contacted a lawyer? Are you fucking stupid, when they question you, they're going to find out that you suddenly spoke to a lawyer, and they're going to start putting your fucking shattered puzzle together.

You're probably fucked, but again, SHUT YOUR SHIT SPEWING TRAP.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:44:00 No.6116855 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116168

>my brain is off, I keep going

Are you black OP? Because that sounds like what a nigger would do.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:44:00 No.6116859 Report

Quoted By: >>6116888 >>6116898 >>6116905

>>6116824

Don't do this for fucks sake. The courts are sympathetic towards women in these cases, if you deny it they will be harsh on you for lying. Besides, he ejaculated, he can't deny everything, there won't be signs of forced entry but there will be evidence of intercourse.

Ignore fucking /adv/, get a good lawyer, pay the most you can afford (this isn't something negotiable, you spend all your savings on this if you have to). Tell him absolutely everything, and let him get you the most lenient sentence possible.

Don't go to the cops, go to a lawyer.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:44:00 No.6116861 Report

Quoted By: >>6116878 >>6116879 >>6116906 >>6116947

Tried to call her, it sounds occupied. I will try again in a few minutes, apologize and try to explain. I'll turn myself in if she asks me to.

>>6116799
Basically "oh god I'm fucking her, um thighs, um lips" etc. Nothing but lust. At first she didn't react, she let me kiss her, then she tried to speak and to drive me off her. After that she twirled a bit, then when I penetrated her she stopped.

>>6116807
Missionary yes, more or less. I didn't undress her except her pajamas short, she had nothing under it. I did it as I held her down with one arm. I think she was unwilling yes. I guess it sounds weird, I hoped for a moment that it was not a rape and I was just being a drama-queen. So much for that.

And I don't know what happened to me. I won't lie, I've fantasized about her before. I even fantasized about kind of forced sex, but not with her. I did have very vivid dreams about her leaving her bf forme. So yeah. But I didn't want or plan to rape Akemi, or even have sex.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:45:00 No.6116871 Report

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>>6116849
The text could be explained as he was guilty for cheating on her bf with her or whatever. As long as he doesn't mention the rape. But chances are he's fucked regardless

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:46:00 No.6116878 Report

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>>6116861
No, you don't think she didn't want it. You think she did want it and therefore it was accidental.

Castrol !fxPOl/bn4E

Castrol !fxPOl/bn4E Fri 20 May 2011 18:46:00 No.6116879 Report

Quoted By: >>6116893

>>6116861
Nigger you are hopeless.

I offer you genuine advice and you fail to adhere, I'm going to have to assume that you are an inbred hillbilly or a troll, maybe both.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:47:00 No.6116883 Report

Quoted By:

ITT: teens

Okay, OP, if you wanna walk out of this shit make sure you do 2 things:
1. Calm her down and be nice to her and speaking in such a way that it does not look like a rape
2. Deny any claims that she resisted you
Right the hell now.

Chicks have chaos in their brains and are never completely sure about things. Point 1. will reduce the chances she calls the cops by calming her down and convincing her that it was not rape. Point 2. will reduce the chances of you getting convicted by pointing out that she wasn't really that unwilling. She had a sexy pyjamas and shit. If you do those things like I say it when I say it you will survive. If not - best of luck, OP, AMFYOYO

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:48:00 No.6116888 Report

Quoted By: >>6116905

>>6116859
This anon is right. All others are morons.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:49:00 No.6116893 Report

Quoted By: >>6116920

>>6116879
Sorry, didn't see your post. I don't know if she said no because I litteraly weren't listening. She probably said wait, not sure. And I won't deny it because I fucking did it. I'll admit everything, while trying not to be accused of stuff I didn't do.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:49:00 No.6116898 Report

Quoted By: >>6116912

>>6116859
>. Besides, he ejaculated, he can't deny everything, there won't be signs of forced entry but there will be evidence of intercourse.

Lol are you retarded? I didn't say he should deny the sex he should deny the rape. Of course there gonna be evidence of the intercourse after normal sex derp. You're probably a femnazi who wants op to get raped in jail. Op don't listen to her its a trap.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:50:00 No.6116903 Report

Quoted By:

ITT: "nice guys"

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:51:00 No.6116905 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116888

>>6116859

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:51:00 No.6116906 Report

Quoted By: >>6116919

>>6116861

i dont get it. i mean sex is clumsy, but rape would be way more awkward. did you hold her down the whole time? she kissed you back? was she wet? what happened after you were done did she get up and curse at you? i dont think she thinks its rape. she might now... but not then. i dont know you are going to have to do whatever she wants you to do now. either turn yourself in or let her boyfriend beat you up, or she might want to keeep fucking you? who knows.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:51:00 No.6116907 Report

Quoted By:

Don't speak to her fuck. If you don't want to go to prison. Don't text don't do anything. It's pretty hard for a girl to prove rape especially if she doesn't report it straight away.

Deny deny deny you stupid nigger. You text her you admit your guilt she can use it in court.

Deny deny deny. If the cops come wait till you get a lawyer and play the story has she wanted it you had sex and then she started crying and saying what a horrible gf she was and that she can't imagine what will happen if her bf finds out she feels so guilty etc etc.

Unless you're really sorry and want to go to prison.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:52:00 No.6116912 Report

Quoted By: >>6116955 >>6116964 >>6116979

>>6116898

What he did was wrong, and he needs to reflect on that in a meaningful way. The girl has also been wronged, and deserves to see some justice being carried out.

I would love for them to talk it out, and for all of this to become a terrible mistake of the past. In reality though, she's emotionally damaged, he's fucked up, and if the cops get involved, it's prison time.

Get a lawyer, don't go to the cops. Best case scenario, she doesn't press charges and you spend a lot of money, and lose a friend. Worst case scenario, you get a lenient sentence instead of the maximum penalty for rape. I don't know where you live, but that's a long fucking time over here.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:53:00 No.6116917 Report

Quoted By: >>6116935

>alpha as fuck

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:53:00 No.6116919 Report

Quoted By: >>6116946

>>6116906
read the damn thread dude he answered all these questions

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:53:00 No.6116920 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116893
You are admitting something that didn't really happen - she wasn't resisting enough so it wasn't rape. Easy as that.

More importantly, you, she and the whole world will be better-off if no one else hears about this.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:55:00 No.6116935 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116917
the alpha move now would be to go back to her place and rape her again until she admits she loves it
but thing is, "alpha" is a stupid fantasy for complexed teens

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:56:00 No.6116946 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116919
Except for 'was she wet'.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:56:00 No.6116947 Report

Quoted By: >>6116979

>>6116861

Are you SURE she didn't say/fight much? Is it possible you were too in the moment to even hear/feel her?

It probably doesn't make much difference to you, I'm just trying to wrap my head around the situation. And it's definitely possible you were so in the moment that a lot of stuff went in one ear and out the other, it's not uncommon in intense situations.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:57:00 No.6116955 Report

Quoted By: >>6116980

>>6116912
Bullshit. What he did is wrong yes but I don't give a shit about being the devils advocate

Think about for every lying rapist like op there will be 100x more sluts lying about being raped because she regret the sex and fuck the guys life up.

Go to prison for anything but don't go there for the rape. You deserve a second chance op.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:58:00 No.6116958 Report

Quoted By: >>6116962 >>6116971

/adv/ has a LOT of rape in it. like at least one rape thread a day. this is interesting.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:59:00 No.6116962 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116958
> /adv/ has a LOT of rape in it. like at least one rape thread a day. this is interesting.
we caught the rape spillover from r9k

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 18:59:00 No.6116964 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116912
You must be a chick.

We guys here look out for each other and help each other. That's why we're on the advice board for fucks sake.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:00:00 No.6116971 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116958

Most of it is troll. When I was on here a lot a week ago it seemed every other thread was about a dude with a big penis.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:01:00 No.6116979 Report

Quoted By: >>6116997

>>6116912
Thank you, that helped me clear the possible outcomes.

>>6116947
I can't be sure. To be honest it's possible she said no or fought more than I can remember. I only got my senses back after the ejaculation, and at this point she looked.. missing. Cold.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:01:00 No.6116980 Report

Quoted By: >>6117211

>>6116955

So because some people convicted of rape are innocent, real rapists should get off scott free?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:02:00 No.6116983 Report

Quoted By: >>6116986 >>6116995

She used you for years, friendzoned you and fed you just enough sexy to keep you on the hook. You use her for 10 minutes and you're the one going to jail? fuck no.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:03:00 No.6116986 Report

Quoted By: >>6117000

>>6116983
The difference is violence and consent.

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:03:00 No.6116990 Report

Quoted By:

pics or it didnt happen, OP

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:03:00 No.6116991 Report

Quoted By:

WAS SHE ON BIRTH CONTROL?

Enjoy your baby born from a one night stand she didn't want.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:03:00 No.6116995 Report

Quoted By: >>6117006

>>6116983

You can't emotionally use someone against their will.
It's a far cry from physically holding someone down.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:03:00 No.6116997 Report

Quoted By: >>6117005

>>6116979
NO YOU FAGGOT DO NOT GO THERE.

Read your own first post again. You're making shit up in order to feed your guilt. Don't.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:04:00 No.6117000 Report

Quoted By: >>6117022

>>6116986
>The difference is violence and consent.
So subtle manipulation over a long period of time is fine, but strong manipulation for 10 minutes is not? No way.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:05:00 No.6117005 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116997
I genuinely don't know. My memories are both intense and blur. Anyway, I'm going to call her again.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:05:00 No.6117006 Report

Quoted By: >>6117036

>>6116995
>You can't emotionally use someone against their will.
It is against their will, they're being led to think one thing (that there is a chance of a relationship) whereas the reality is not the case. That's against his will, because if he knew the truth, he wouldn't have stuck around to be her emotional tampon.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:06:00 No.6117008 Report

Quoted By:

post her phone number and ill call her and ask if she was raped or not.

or you should just text her
Was that rape Yes or NO?

if she says yes text her
Shut up whore.

if she says no say
Shut up whore.

win/win.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:07:00 No.6117018 Report

Quoted By: >>6117024

sexy pajamas defense.

works every time.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:08:00 No.6117021 Report

Quoted By:

if the pyjamas fit, you must acquit.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:08:00 No.6117022 Report

Quoted By: >>6117032

>>6117000

Why not just force feed your kids with 18 years worth of food and water when they're newborns to get it out of the way at once?

BECAUSE IT'S NOT THE SAME THING.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:08:00 No.6117023 Report

Quoted By: >>6117042

DENY EVERYTHING AND HOPE SHE DIDN'T GET A RAPE KIT!

IF THERE IS DNA IN HER CLAIM SHE CALLED YOU AND SEDUCED YOU!

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:08:00 No.6117024 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117018
lol'd too at sexy pajamas

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:10:00 No.6117032 Report

Quoted By: >>6117056

>>6117022
>Why not just force feed your kids with 18 years worth of food and water when they're newborns to get it out of the way at once?
So a little bit of manipulation is good for you?
Fuck off

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:11:00 No.6117036 Report

Quoted By: >>6117051

>>6117006

You're a bitter faggot and will die col and alone. Why don't you go make a thread complaining about how you're such a nice guy and girls only want to date douche bags?

You say a woman is using a man as an emotional tampon. I'd say she's treating him as a regular friend, while he's using her friendship as a means to an end (hypothetical, not talking about you OP).
Go fucking blow a dude in a gay bar toilet if you hate women so much.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:11:00 No.6117042 Report

Quoted By: >>6117076

>>6117023

also, don't go with the police unless they have a warrant. If you get arrested just say "I want my attorney."

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:12:00 No.6117046 Report

Quoted By:

DENY DENY DENY

Fri 20 May 2011 19:13:00 No.6117049 Report

Quoted By:

troll detected

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:13:00 No.6117051 Report

Quoted By: >>6117062

>>6117036
>I'd say she's treating him as a regular friend, while he's using her friendship as a means to an end (hypothetical, not talking about you OP).
That's bullshit, because in most situations like that the girl KNOWS that the guy has a thing for her. They get off on it. It's a desire to be desired. You've got such an innocent view of women, it's cute.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:13:00 No.6117056 Report

Quoted By: >>6117061

>>6117032

Fine, another example.
A guy is manipulated into donating blood a couple of times a year for a few years.
Would you say that's just as bad as stabbing him in the jugular and letting him bleed to death?

I mean hey, he's losing the same amount of blood in both scenarios.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:15:00 No.6117060 Report

Quoted By:

recap: Akemi sexy lil'asian chick, has a bf and a secondary bf in the person of OP the well-behaved.

she makes up a reason to call him over at night while her primary bf is out of town.

she offers him to sleep at her place and they proceed to watch a scary movie. she teases him, to the point of laying on him.

OP being the dumbass he is, crushes her under all his neckbeard weight instead of kissing her like she expected.

quick sex. Akemi is in shock things didn't go according to the plan. OP panicks and leaves, thinking himself a monster.

now he's going to jail where HE'll get raped for real.

ha, 4chan, you never cease to amuse me.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:15:00 No.6117061 Report

Quoted By: >>6117069

>>6117056
So.. you're comparing a subtle manipulation over the course of years, with giving blood voluntarily with no negative effects?
And you're also comparing ten minutes of physical discomfort with being stabbed in the jugular and bleeding to death.
Nope. Try again.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:15:00 No.6117062 Report

Quoted By: >>6117064

>>6117051

If you're going to be an emotionally needy retard, you deserve to be manipulated and I don't give a fuck. Seriously, if it takes someone years to realise they won't be having consensual sex with a girl, they're a fucking idiot and deserve zero sympathy. All it takes is "Will you go out with me?". Any answer that isn't "yes" = MOVE THE FUCK ON.
Have fun being pathetic.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:17:00 No.6117064 Report

Quoted By: >>6117083

>>6117062
lol. your veins are popping out of your forehead u so mad.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:17:00 No.6117065 Report

Quoted By:

I think you should talk to her, tell her you thought she wanted it. Then apologise, a lot. Don't deny it, don't lie things will only get worse if you do that.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:17:00 No.6117068 Report

Quoted By: >>6117080 >>6117081 >>6117091 >>6117097 >>6117098 >>6117112 >>6117177 >>6117929

Just got off the phone with her
Me: um hey.
Her: Fuck you.
Me: look i feel bad being so forceful i felt disgusting afterwards.
Her: you fucking raped me anon. you fucking raped me
Me: i guess i did. im sorry. do you want me to turn myself in or what can i do to make it better?
Her: make RAPING me better? go fucking die in a ditch you small dicked asshole!
Me: ok. im going to turn myself in
Her: how will that make me feel better?
Me: i dont know closure?
Her: The only thing that will make me feel better is if you come over here and let me rape you.
Me: um like how?
Her: how do you think? with a fucking dildo.
Me: Ill call you back...

advise guys?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:17:00 No.6117069 Report

Quoted By: >>6117090

>>6117061

I wont. Because if you still can't grasp the simple concept that "a little of something over a long time" is not the same as "a lot of something in a little time", you're a retard and there's no hope for you.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:18:00 No.6117076 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117042
I don't think you absolutely need a warrant to arrest someone, as long as there is a reasonable belief that the person has committed a crime.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:19:00 No.6117080 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117068
yeah right, we all buy that

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:19:00 No.6117081 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117068
>Her: The only thing that will make me feel better is if you come over here and let me rape you.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:19:00 No.6117083 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117064
>implying anyone on the internet actually gets mad

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:20:00 No.6117090 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117069
>I wont. Because if you still can't grasp the simple concept that "a little of something over a long time" is not the same as "a lot of something in a little time", you're a retard and there's no hope for you.
Oh, I grasp it, I just think it's completely fucking ridiculous to make that comparison, and I think you're a slow-witted oaf who keeps trying to rehash the same pathetic point.

In sum, go fuck a cactus.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:21:00 No.6117091 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117068

hahahaha

3/10

troll harder

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:22:00 No.6117097 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117068

YEP, THAT'S TOTALLY PLAUSIBLE!

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:22:00 No.6117098 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117068
>Mfw I thought it was real at the start and was waiting for a response by OP

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:25:00 No.6117112 Report

Quoted By: >>6117121

>>6117068
Too bad this probably ain't OP.
'cause this would be an excellent solution.
Seriosuly, I haven't homo'd or dildo'd but I hear it feels good.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:26:00 No.6117121 Report

Quoted By: >>6117129 >>6117146

>>6117112
>Seriosuly, I haven't homo'd or dildo'd but I hear it feels good.
Probably wouldn't feel too good if done by a girl you just raped.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:27:00 No.6117129 Report

Quoted By: >>6117142

>>6117121

Speaking of which, I wonder what happened to that dude on here the other day who got raped by his girlfriend.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:28:00 No.6117138 Report

Quoted By:

this better be a troll, I hope you fucking die

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:29:00 No.6117142 Report

Quoted By: >>6117149 >>6117164 >>6117172 >>6117209

>>6117129
>dude
>getting raped

Whiterin !Honor7tFjU

Whiterin !Honor7tFjU Fri 20 May 2011 19:29:00 No.6117146 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117121
Yeaaaah, if this is somehow not a troll, and the actual outcome... OP's asshole is about to get ripped open like a wet paper towel. Would probably be the best case scenario though.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:30:00 No.6117149 Report

Quoted By: >>6117209

>>6117142
>implying a male can't get raped (he has to be a pathetic runt though)

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:32:00 No.6117164 Report

Quoted By: >>6117184

>>6117142
Did you see that thread? She tied him up and dildo raped him while he was drunk and telling her not to touch his pooper.

Totally rape.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:32:00 No.6117168 Report

Quoted By: >>6117179 >>6117188 >>6117192 >>6117224 >>6117235 >>6117237 >>6117239 >>6117292 >>6117294

Okay, OP here. I got on the phone for a good fifteen minutes with her. Lots of stuff changed, I don't know where to begin.

It started awkwardly, I was very careful and diplomatic. She accepted to hear my explanations. At first I didn't want to say the word rape, but as I got further into my apologies she began crying and I lost control. I told her how sorry I was, why I did it even if I don't have any excuses etc. I told her why I feel towards her since months. I tried to be as honest as possible, I ended up near crying too.

She said it was her fault too for teasing me, I said no etc blah blah blah. I won't write the complete conversation, no one would read it.
Long story short, she says she understands and doesn't want me to go to jail.

I'm very very very relieved. Wow. Feels like I'm flying right now. And she's awesome, she really is. It's amazing how understanding she was. I assume from some things she said that she had planned something between us, but not that fast.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:33:00 No.6117172 Report

Quoted By: >>6117183

>>6117142
Shut the fuck up Emma, you don't know how hard it is to be a man.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:34:00 No.6117177 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117068
Obviously this wasn't me. Fuck I'm so happy. Pheww.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:34:00 No.6117179 Report

Quoted By: >>6117232

>>6117168
She enjoyed it and wants you to rape her again

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:34:00 No.6117183 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117172

Oh no?

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:34:00 No.6117184 Report

Quoted By: >>6117203

>>6117164

Ok, yeah i wont argue with you. that sounds like rape to me.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:35:00 No.6117188 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117168
>She said it was her fault too for teasing me,

She was damn right. Glad she isn't one of the damn unreasonable femnazi

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:36:00 No.6117192 Report

Quoted By: >>6117232

>>6117168
OP! I am incredibly happy for you. I must've posted around 20 times in this thread just because I wanted to make sure you were okay.

Really, this makes my day too.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:37:00 No.6117203 Report

Quoted By: >>6117216 >>6117253

>>6117184

/adv/ - Getting men off the hook and nailing bitches to the wall since 200girugamesh

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:37:00 No.6117209 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117142
>>6117149
Got raped by a dildo, lol

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:37:00 No.6117211 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116980
Should and should.. As a man I can't stand seeing another man get to go to prison for rape and has the rest of his life ruined. Innocent or not. Judge me!

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:37:00 No.6117216 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117203
>/adv/ - Getting men off the hook and nailing bitches to the wall since 200girugamesh
Someone's gotta

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:37:00 No.6117217 Report

Quoted By: >>6117232

Honestly OP, if your impulse control is that piss poor, I'd look into getting some therapy. Even if you didn't mean any harm, you're dangerous.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:39:00 No.6117224 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117168

Thats awesome OP, still though how are you going to live with yourself knowing that your a rapist?.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:39:00 No.6117228 Report

Quoted By:

archive this shit

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:39:00 No.6117232 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117179
That's not what she said. I was too scared to ask how she felt during the act, but she probably didn't like it.

>>6117192
Thank you Anon :)

>>6117217
You're right. I told Akemi I would get therapy, and maybe even go with her sometime.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:40:00 No.6117235 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117168

she is going to get her BF to kill you lol

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:40:00 No.6117236 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116168
Bitch deserved it for leading you on and not saying no.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:40:00 No.6117237 Report

Quoted By: >>6117279

>>6117168
Congrats OP. You handled it like a man. Take care of yourself and her and whatever relationship there might be between the two of you, if she still wants you around.
And above all control your fucking self in the future, don't go feral.

By the way i'm the guy from >>6116707, glad you didnt listen to all the denial assholes.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:40:00 No.6117239 Report

Quoted By: >>6117279 >>6117291

>>6117168
Shit, OP. I just released the longest breath. I'm happy for the both of you. Just learn from this and don't be a fuckin' idiot from now on. Don't rush into shit, man. Corny, but it's better to be safe than sorry. I would hug you, dammit, but not right now.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:42:00 No.6117250 Report

Quoted By:

2/4 request to be archived

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:42:00 No.6117253 Report

Quoted By: >>6117269 >>6117285

>>6117203
The difference between these two cases is that the girl who raped the guy with a dildo had no real remorse for the situation after getting the guy drunk, handcuffing him and destroying his asshole.

OP severely regretted what he did and though that doesn't make it okay, I'd rather have that bitch go to jail than someone who actually regrets it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:43:00 No.6117259 Report

Quoted By: >>6117279

yeah sure it's great that you're scott free and all op
but you still raped that chick, didn't you?
so maybe you should think about it and stuff
will you ever do it again?
did you fantasize about it long before?
did you like it? does the thought of it arouses you?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:45:00 No.6117269 Report

Quoted By: >>6117289

>>6117253
There was also more cut and dry expression of lack of intent. Yes the girl tried to push him off, but the guy was in full out NO NO NO NO NOT MY BUTTHOLE mode.

Scary shit man, I dunno what I'd do if some chick did that to me. As was said in that thread, its a bitch to explain how you were raped by a girl and still get taken seriously.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:46:00 No.6117279 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117237
>>6117239
Thank you both immensely! 4chan actually helped me, wow. I will make sure to work out my control and sexual issues.

>>6117259
No I will never never do that again. Fuck no.
Yes I fantasized about her, but not about raping her. I did masturbate to the though of her being submissive :-/
Yes I liked it, but it doesn't mean I will do it again. Even from an egoistical pov, it did more harm than good. And yes I guess I could be aroused by the memory.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:47:00 No.6117285 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117253

I know it was just a joke. I was in that thread trying to get the OP to go to the hospital and ask for a rape-kit.

I wish he did a follow up.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:47:00 No.6117287 Report

Quoted By: >>6117301 >>6117308

OP, the girl is saying it's okay, but your relationship with her is never going to be the same again. She'll try her best to act normal around you but eventually one day she will explode. You've destroyed your chances of ever having a romantic relationship with her in the future. If you really care about her, you probably shouldn't see her again.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:48:00 No.6117289 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117269
>lack of intent
Lack of Consent rather.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:48:00 No.6117291 Report

Quoted By: >>6117337

>>6117239
careful if you hug him he might read into it and rape you.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:49:00 No.6117292 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117168

This made me so happy ready this OP ;-;

Don't fuck up again.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:49:00 No.6117294 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117168
Great, but remember how dangerous is what you did, and that you're the most extremely lucky guy in the world.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:50:00 No.6117301 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117287
OP can probably have her, now that he's broken the ice.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:50:00 No.6117306 Report

Quoted By: >>6117344

3/4 request to be archived

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:51:00 No.6117307 Report

Quoted By:

C'mon he was just horny and lose his control. Sure what he did was wrong but dont make it seems he's the most horrible person in the world. Geez those femnazi

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:51:00 No.6117308 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117287
I'm prepared to that. I asked her if she wanted me out of her life, out of uni or even the city. She said no.

We really did communicate, I couldn't have hope for a best reaction from her. I was afraid she wouldn't ever talk to me again, besides reporting me.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:52:00 No.6117314 Report

Quoted By: >>6117323 >>6117328 >>6117329 >>6117347

so guys
it's time to ask the REAL questions
is OP alpha or beta?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:52:00 No.6117315 Report

Quoted By:

Well... maybe she was kinda into this kind of stuff ? You know, some women actually mean yes when they say or nod no.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:52:00 No.6117319 Report

Quoted By:

cheers op

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:53:00 No.6117322 Report

Quoted By:

>sexy pajamas
>she wants to be raped

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:53:00 No.6117323 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117314

beta as fuck

captcha: GUILTY edits

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:53:00 No.6117328 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117314
Beta. He regret what he did and crawling back begging the bitch to forgive her.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:53:00 No.6117329 Report

Quoted By: >>6117339

>>6117314

non, just a lucky guy with a really good friend.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:55:00 No.6117337 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117291
I wouldn't hug him at the moment because it seems inappropriate, but I feel so relieved for him I'm like, "Fuck it." *Hug* This will be with him for the rest of his life, so he better get the help he needs and not do this shit again. You better get therapy, OP. Dammit.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:55:00 No.6117339 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117329
I wish my friends were attractive asian females and let me rape them.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:55:00 No.6117344 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117306
I put 4/4.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:56:00 No.6117346 Report

Quoted By:

why are we archiving this shit exactly?

Whiterin !Honor7tFjU

Whiterin !Honor7tFjU Fri 20 May 2011 19:56:00 No.6117347 Report

Quoted By: >>6117359 >>6117382

>>6117314
You fuckers don't even know what these actually mean.
He acted "beta" for loosing control of himself and doing what he did.
He acted "alpha" for manning up and accepting responsibility and understanding what he had done. He will willing to take the consequences for his actions, which is a lot more "alpha" then most people would do.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:58:00 No.6117359 Report

Quoted By: >>6117398

>>6117347
I think you got it wrong here

He acted alpha to take what he wants and dont give a shit about the girls feeling.

He acted beta to regret shit he did and apologizes her like a pathetic loser

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 19:58:00 No.6117360 Report

Quoted By: >>6117382 >>6117421

whats the boyfriend going to do... thats the real question...

alpha boyfriend kills OP
beta boyfriend cries.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:00:00 No.6117370 Report

Quoted By: >>6117404

OP, time to play double or nothing. you need to call her up and see if she wants to go again.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:00:00 No.6117382 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117360
so alpha bf is a murderder and goes to jail for a good ten years
and beta bf is in empathy with the woman he loves, and feels her sadness?

>>6117347
as much as I hate tripfags, I agree with that.

Whiterin !Honor7tFjU

Whiterin !Honor7tFjU Fri 20 May 2011 20:02:00 No.6117398 Report

Quoted By: >>6117432

>>6117359
You think that because you're an inexperienced child. Perhaps your idea of "alpha" is twisted in some way... the common misconception that alpha/dominant = asshole. A real "alpha" has control over himself over all else. OP expressed that this was not the case. By simple logic... the opposite of alpha can't really be alpha now can it be? Also, op could have taken the cowards, the "beta" way out and lied, made up bullshit etc... but he didn't. He accepted what he did, and was willing to take the results of his actions. That takes more balls then you have.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:03:00 No.6117403 Report

Quoted By:

>some women actually mean yes when they say or nod no.

So many confusing moments in my life. don't they realize that its sexier if she was more assertive and just simply said i want your cock instead of leaving us in mid air like that.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:03:00 No.6117404 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117370
+1

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:04:00 No.6117410 Report

Quoted By: >>6117424 >>6117439

>He acted "alpha" for manning up and accepting responsibility and understanding what he had done. He will willing to take the consequences for his actions, which is a lot more "alpha" then most people would do.

Well by this logic the more pausible thing to do is turning himself to the cop and accept going to prison. Not begging her to forgive him so he can get away with what he did the his responsibility. Beta as fuck

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:05:00 No.6117421 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117360
bf won't find out. He'll question why he was over there that late and if he talks to the OP, why she was snuggled up on a guy that liked her. He'll then wonder if it really was rape.

Or he'll stab (if in europe) or shoot (if in USA) OP with no questions

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:05:00 No.6117424 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117410
herp derp he's not in jail so he's beta herp derp

If this is how you view the world then there's no hope for you.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:06:00 No.6117432 Report

Quoted By: >>6117446 >>6117451 >>6117456 >>6117475

>>6117398
Right. Because the alpha lion leader asks the female nicely to let him fuck her, accept if she refuse and cry begging her to forgive him if he accidentally put his penis anywhere near the female. Alpha=/ pussy whipped faggots

Whiterin !Honor7tFjU

Whiterin !Honor7tFjU Fri 20 May 2011 20:07:00 No.6117439 Report

Quoted By: >>6117454

>>6117410
He mentioned several times, and even told her, that he would accept that... He did the sane thing and had a conversation, you know... those things adults have, with her to work things out.

I usually just browse through /adv/ for kicks... but doing so... I have noticed you fuckers have the most twisted, misinformed, and down right laughable idea of alpha vs beta.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:08:00 No.6117446 Report

Quoted By: >>6117465

>>6117432
Because lion society is an exact mirror of human society.

Fri 20 May 2011 20:08:00 No.6117448 Report

Quoted By: >>6117462

lol you must be stupid.
Did she fight against you?
if she didn't, she's probably got no injuries, but it's still a rape.

Whiterin !Honor7tFjU

Whiterin !Honor7tFjU Fri 20 May 2011 20:08:00 No.6117451 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117432
Oh you kids with no real world knowledge or experience... when will you learn?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:08:00 No.6117454 Report

Quoted By: >>6117482

>>6117439
>He mentioned several times, and even told her, that he would accept that.

Passive aggressive shit. If he really is willing to take the consequences for his actions he'd turn himself by his own, not calling her begging and hoping her to forgive him like he intent to

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:08:00 No.6117456 Report

Quoted By: >>6117471 >>6117481

>>6117432
do you eat raw gazelle meat? do you ROAR at people?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:09:00 No.6117462 Report

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>>6117448
Read the thread, dude.

She's cool with it. She just was overwhelmed by his sudden and direct approach to things.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:09:00 No.6117465 Report

Quoted By: >>6117494

>>6117446
Right because human's sexual behaviour is much different from mammals. Derp,

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:11:00 No.6117470 Report

Quoted By: >>6117528

That girl Akeemi is the greatest friend I've ever heard of. You rape her and she says it's her fault. Does she have a tendency to submission? Does she often feels guilty over little things?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:11:00 No.6117471 Report

Quoted By: >>6117481

>>6117456

he sure would be alpha if he did!

Whiterin !Honor7tFjU

Whiterin !Honor7tFjU Fri 20 May 2011 20:11:00 No.6117474 Report

Quoted By: >>6117519

Gah... the level of stupid here baffles me sometimes... lol. Seriously guys... wtf?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:11:00 No.6117475 Report

Quoted By: >>6117484

>>6117432

>implying lion life=human life

Edgy 16 year old detected

Whiterin !Honor7tFjU

Whiterin !Honor7tFjU Fri 20 May 2011 20:12:00 No.6117481 Report

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>>6117456
>>6117471
LOL... can't really argue with that one I guess!

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:12:00 No.6117482 Report

Quoted By: >>6117496

>>6117454
Since the definition of rape is to commit some sexual act without the other's consent, it's actually important what the other person thinks, is it not? If I got a girlfriend and grabbed her and fucked her nine ways to Sunday, slapping her and choking her, it's still not rape if she was totally okay with it.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:12:00 No.6117483 Report

Quoted By:

ITT /adv/ being trolled hard

Pic related

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:13:00 No.6117484 Report

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>>6117475
>implying human= speshul biologically wise

naive ignorant faggot detected

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:14:00 No.6117494 Report

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>>6117465
Humans ARE mammals.

And if you honestly think that human sexuality is the same as lion sexuality, then you are retarded.

Pic related; I think it's what just happened.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:15:00 No.6117496 Report

Quoted By: >>6117521

>>6117482
>Since the definition of rape is to commit some sexual act without the other's consent,

Well that's what he would think about before and during the rape. Not after. He's what we can compare to the sluts who agree to have sex then days later decided to call it's rape and report the poor guy

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:17:00 No.6117501 Report

Quoted By:

>>6116168

Good she was among those who enjoy it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:19:00 No.6117519 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117474
Edgy tripfags are asking to get trolled. If you wanna say something useful/meaningful do it as anonymous. Otherwise I'd assume that you're trying to gain popularity/attention and troll you.

Love
- Anonymous

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:19:00 No.6117521 Report

Quoted By: >>6117543

>>6117496
I gave you a definition of the word rape. This is a concept. It has no direct relation to any actual event in the world in the past, present or future. It's not important to the definition of a word when what or how something happened. Except maybe, when and how it was defined as what.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:20:00 No.6117527 Report

Quoted By:

You're not off the hook yet, OP. She may still change her mind and cry rape if her boyfriend ever finds out.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:20:00 No.6117528 Report

Quoted By: >>6117539 >>6117878

OP here.
She called me, we talked for a long time. For some reason I told her "I love you" which is true I suppose, but seems like bad-timing. It was to express how I would never hurt her intentionally etc. Apparently she was in shock after the event, but because we "had did it" more than because of the forced aspect. I hope she's not traumatized. She says she isn't. She's mad at me for forcing her to cheat on her bf, but she doesn't seem to feel like I raped her.

>>6117470
Yes, she's very soft, and self-effacing with people she doesn't know well. I don't think she easily feels guilty, quite the contrary actually.

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:21:00 No.6117537 Report

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>>6116168
>ie jump on her and crunch her under my weight. I'm not very good at it
>she's too surprised to react
>finally she tries to push me away
>my brain is off, I keep going
>I take her pants off and penetrate her
>it lasts for I think 10 minutes maybe less

This... it... can't be true. No way. NO WAY.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:21:00 No.6117539 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117528

I guess everything worked out fine. Now rape her in the mouth.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:22:00 No.6117542 Report

Quoted By:

you alpha OP, be proud and wait for her, she will come for more, I'm 120% sure of it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:22:00 No.6117543 Report

Quoted By: >>6117568 >>6117599

>>6117521
I know the definition of rape. But since OP knew it was rape during and before he did it there's no point asking her to make sure if IT WAS RAPE or if she DID give him consent like you said in your post. What he did is just passive aggressive shit hoping for her to forgive him. Not an act I'd call for brave and responsible.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:24:00 No.6117568 Report

Quoted By: >>6117639

>>6117543
My clarify
>Rape the girl
>not sure if it was rape
>ask the girl days later if she give him consent to do what he already did.
>call it asking for consent thus not rape as the definition

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:29:00 No.6117599 Report

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>>6117543
How did he know it was Rape? How can he know something that essentially is entirely dependent on someone else's mind? I can't read minds; can you? Never in my life have I known what's in someone else's mind, and I'll probably never know it; I can only have an indirect relation to it. And if a person tells me what they think about something, then I must believe them.

You're acting like you're supposed to turn yourself in for a crime that you perceived as a crime but wasn't a crime because the supposed "victim" never thought of it as a crime or of themselves as a victim.

Example: Your parents are away. You take their car without permission. Let's say something happens to it and it falls off a cliff. Later, you feel extreme guilt. You go to the police and admit to stealing someone's car and destroying their property, instead of telling your parents you took their car for a spin and they are angry at you or something but are okay with it, and do not want to press charges.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:33:00 No.6117639 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117568
But he did not rape the girl. It doesn't matter if she'd say it at his fucking funeral, but if she says she didn't feel like it was rape and wants to press charges it was not. You somehow seem to think there's some kind of "rape limbo" where what you did remains undecided, and much like the box with schroedinger's cat in it, when you open the box a day later and suddenly the outcome - not rape - is decided, that's totally wrong because earlier, you thought it was rape.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:42:00 No.6117712 Report

Quoted By: >>6117808 >>6117812

is it bad that I got a boner from op's story?
the picture of that big guy pounding a cute little japanese, forcefully spreading her legs.. ummm..

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:53:00 No.6117808 Report

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>>6117712
aaaand now I have to fap
thank you for nothing

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:53:00 No.6117812 Report

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>>6117712

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 20:58:00 No.6117844 Report

Quoted By: >>6118061

What OP did was rape, and it sounds like this girl is the stereotypical Japanese female that has trouble standing up for herself. She's blaming herself when she should be doing anything but. This is a phase that rape victims frequently go through. No girl is ever "asking" to be raped, and the fact that some of you feel this way sickens me.

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Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 21:04:00 No.6117870 Report

Quoted By:

I fapped to this, OP. Thanks bro.

Also, OP's face during rape time.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 21:05:00 No.6117878 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117528
Sounds like it wasn't really rape then buddy.

Well done, your off the hook.

Now play it cool, DON'T tell her you forced her or anything stupid like that, for fucks sake, DO NOT even bring it up in the context of her not consenting.

Keep records of your conversations, if shit goes bad, showing that she called you and you talked for ages could save your ass in court.

*pat on the back*

I'm proud of you OP.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 21:11:00 No.6117929 Report

Quoted By:

>>6117068
if thats really true then have her shove a dildo up your ass, hell you may like it. also if that was the case she probably enjoyed being forced into sex. some women have rape fantasies you know

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 20 May 2011 21:29:00 No.6118061 Report

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OP here, probably the last time I post. Thank again for every one who adviced me, you really helped me get through this. I called Akemi again after I've read >>6117844 and other similar posts.

I asked her if she was blaming herself, and explained her why she shouldn't etc. I also said she could change her mind anytime, wether to report me to the police or tell me to leave her alone.

I think she needed this, she reacted well. Something still seems off though, I couldn't say what. I know the situation is very weird and all, but there's a little something I don't understand about her behavior.

By the way I do not endorse rape, it's not cool, I'm not bragging at all.

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