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so adv/, my life is pretty fucked up right now
i'm in my early 30s, been seeing the same girl for nearly 5 years now, shes in her 20s. its been a bit of a manic/depressive relationship for a large part of it, and oh yeah she's currently 5 months pregnant. about 2 years ago we were engaged but about a month before the wedding her parents (who don't particularly care for me) tell me one day that the wedding is off and that GF has been seeing someone else on the side for weeks. i move out of our place and crushed from the whole experience, start to get on with my life. about a month later, after zero contact GF contacts me, crying very distraught, tells me that the whole situation was fabricated by her parents to end our relationship and engagement and that the alleged new boyfriend was just a gay guy friend of hers playing along to sell the story to me.
we reconciled and got back together much to the very public dismay of both of our families now, but we were resolute. trusting her was difficult but i was committed to making things work. and they did for a time.
about a year ago her behavior towards me shifted into a more hostile manner...picking fights about little things or inventing things to be mad about. i thought it odd and did some sleuthing and discovered some damning conversations between her and a female co-worker of a flirtatious and sexual manner but i kept quiet about it. then one day she sends me a lengthy e-mail basically requsting to go 'on a break' so she could experiment with her new-found bisexuality with this girl. almost immediately after she sent it she called and told me (before i had even read it) that she regretted sending it and to disregard it and she had no inent to follow through on it. it was a major blow to our relationship but we talked it through and decided to move past it
tbc
i'm in my early 30s, been seeing the same girl for nearly 5 years now, shes in her 20s. its been a bit of a manic/depressive relationship for a large part of it, and oh yeah she's currently 5 months pregnant. about 2 years ago we were engaged but about a month before the wedding her parents (who don't particularly care for me) tell me one day that the wedding is off and that GF has been seeing someone else on the side for weeks. i move out of our place and crushed from the whole experience, start to get on with my life. about a month later, after zero contact GF contacts me, crying very distraught, tells me that the whole situation was fabricated by her parents to end our relationship and engagement and that the alleged new boyfriend was just a gay guy friend of hers playing along to sell the story to me.
we reconciled and got back together much to the very public dismay of both of our families now, but we were resolute. trusting her was difficult but i was committed to making things work. and they did for a time.
about a year ago her behavior towards me shifted into a more hostile manner...picking fights about little things or inventing things to be mad about. i thought it odd and did some sleuthing and discovered some damning conversations between her and a female co-worker of a flirtatious and sexual manner but i kept quiet about it. then one day she sends me a lengthy e-mail basically requsting to go 'on a break' so she could experiment with her new-found bisexuality with this girl. almost immediately after she sent it she called and told me (before i had even read it) that she regretted sending it and to disregard it and she had no inent to follow through on it. it was a major blow to our relationship but we talked it through and decided to move past it
tbc
