What's the line between loli and not-loli?  I'd say 14 and above is not, but up to 13 could be.  Lolita herself is 12 when Humbert meets her, and later writes that girls stop being nyphets at around 14.  (If you're wondering who Humbert is, this next part will shock you.)  Of course, a lolita complex has nothing to do with a young age in particular.  The lolita complex is about finding a relationship with somebody the same age as the last time he had the feelings.  (Humbert has his first sexual experience and love with a girl of 14, who then dies of typhus.)

At 14, somebody understands what sex really is.  They may not be or feel mature enough for it yet, but they understand it.  At 14, one is biologicaly an adult.  So, thoughts?