god that's awful.
best style depends on what you can pull off. if you are a fat fuck with a face full of acne and no make-up skillz you can pretty much forget about any chance of taking up the fashion sucessfully. though classic is probably the easiest to pull off. hardest are the rarer styles like punk lolita (never seen it done right).
tl;dr plz to be reading lolita handbook (
http://lolita-handbook.livejournal.com/)