>>4412237Ah.. I'm black, so I know that coarse hair problem AAAALLL too fucking well.
Honestly, that whole "don't touch it" shit has been the worst advice for me.
I don't know how to completely prevent them or get rid the scars (I hyperpigment almost immediately, it doesn't even need to make a bump, just have a hair poke under my skin..) but for the ingrowns get a small safety and after you get out of the shower.. AFTER because your skin is soft at that point, find those hairs and pull them out. You shouldn't have to dig, but by now, I'm sure you know what it looks like when the hair is starting to dig, how there's a little bit visible that you can hook the pin under, pull it out that way.
Sucks.. doesn't it?