looking for options... i went to rather nice wedding this weekend. id say there were 50- 60 people. it was located in a hotel, 15th story overlooking the city, awesome view. there were 2 paid photographers, dj, wedding planner and a bartender. cake was several tiers standing about 3 feet tall. the question i have is: am i wrong in thinking it was horribly distasteful for them to sever ham sandwiches for dinner?? keep in mind the groom is a culinary graduate who is a cook for a living.