>>1131084Hmm. I've yet to really /see/ a doujin where Sebastian rapes Ciel. Since they're not translated yet we can't tell if there is any 'leave me alone, that's an order', 'ohohoho, no, I'm going to rape you' dialogue - and that would really make a difference (though, still, they all come across like Ciel deathly needs some cock like all good, entranced shouta do. I'm afraid, as a shotacon, I can't complain about that fantasy).
I've said this, to perhaps even the same friend, but where Ciel sort-of-didn't-want I'm confident Sebastian could persuade him he did. As much as we all want Ciel to boss Sebastian about, you cannot deny that Sebastian can himself be manipulative. On the same note, Sebastian being older probably has more experience and the best command Ciel could probably conjure is 'do whatever makes it feel good and don't mess about', giving Sebastian quite some freedom to act on his own decisions.
I personally find the mixture of power struggles between them, and Ciel's awkwardness in particular social situations, to be entertaining subjects for fanworks. It does though, make me question how well I know the characters. You've got to wonder, since the Japanese fandom has seen more than we have.