>>42037757pretty much. that's like sexual repression 101. the more you try to ignore it the more your obsession grows and really extreme weird fetishes show up.
same phenomenon with diets that completely denies tasty junk food. people on these diets obsesses over the food they denies themselves and making it more likely they cheat or fail their diet and more likely that when they reach whatever their target wait is they'll binge and ruin everything.