>>1184568I seriously don't know. I asked about using just 1 finger. Out of almost nowhere. She said that would be fine. We'd been pegging for years, so she was sorta into it, but before that, I thought there was nothing, no way, no how. It surprised even me. But she liked it, and she even played with it without me, which is rare. We also used some anal bead, cuz the starting end is so small you can barely feel them. Sorry, man, but I really think I just sorta happened onto it. If you can get her to at least try, you're making progress. Make sure she's turned on when you start. We started in doggystyle, then I started rubbing her asshole with some lube. She loved that. I only got one knuckle in that first time, and it hurt, but perhaps the teasing of her hole, and her being already turned on helped. Probably a lot. She said a finger would have always been fine with her, but I swear she had a total ban, so I just really don't know for sure.