>>3517090The person I'm currently with, I just got really absurdly lucky, to find this person, the first solid relationship I've ever had, and he's a dom. Not to mention, he's into everything else I'm into, which really just seems like magic to me. We met at a party almost 7 years ago. Really mundane.
Thinking of the prospect of trying to find someone else, I've always thought that I'd simply have to strike up a relationship (after making sure all the fundamental stuff lines up, like politics, morality, life goals, etc.) and then really just... bring it up at some point when I felt comfortable. I'm a brutally direct and honest person, so I likely would just lay it all out and hope things go well. If not, then goodbye, a shame but oh well!
Mmmmh, welcome to me rambling..
anyway, my own approach to it is really just "Find someone, see if they run when the weird comes out" and to also try to express myself as much as I can through life, to be certain they could have some idea of the general kind of person I am before anything's even said. I dunno. Just hope I never have to deal with finding someone else =(
Also, so much love for this thread <3