>>3515737The thing is, 'nice guys' (who really aren't nice at all) want to 'buy' sex by being nice. They'll go out of their way and do all sorts of things for a girl, hoping to rack up enough points that she'll finally 'reward' them with sex. And when she doesn't, because she doesn't think of him in that way and thought he was just being a friend (all be it a somewhat overly intense one) he gets ANGRY. All those things he did for her! She used him and never intended to repay him with sex!
(Can you tell that the whole idea of sex as currency is distasteful to me? People should get it on if it gives both of them joy. Not because one of them feels they are owed a fuck)
If you want to date somebody, just scrape up the guts and make it clear as soon as possible. If they turn you down, back off, and don't go for friendship unless/until you can be a real friend, without expectations.
(I am not getting at Anon for not wanting friendship with girls who have turned him down. I'm getting at him for not apparently finding any woman worth time or attention unless he is attracted to her)
But yeah, if you're the sort of guy who hopes to win somebody over by doing them endless favours, going out of your way over and over again, and generally hanging around hoping for scraps of affection, then you are likely to meet women who accept what you offer. The key is that YOU OFFER her those things, because you're hoping to buy sex with them. Stop it. And avoid friendships with people who ask you favours all the time without doing anything for you in return.
Also,
http://xkcd.com/513/ 
