>>4134498Real life rape and fantasy rape are two completely different things in most cases. It's rare for a girl to have an actual rape fetish, but it's true that "fantasy rape" is very common.
For me personally it works like this: I'm a "nice girl", and society has taught me that "nice girls" don't crave sex. (madonna/whore complex, etc.) Therefore, as a release, I create rape fantasies in my mind.
In the fantasy I'll just be minding my own business when suddenly a mysterious man appears. He starts touching me, and it feels good, but I can't admit it because that's not what nice girls do. So he proceeds to rape me. At first I'll struggle and ask him to stop, but I don't REALLY want him to stop. Because it feels damn good. It never hurts; the "rapist" is rough and dominant, but always keeps my pleasure in mind.
Humiliation is also a plus, like "ha ha little girl, you pretend like you're so innocent and yet here you are moaning because of a stranger's cock!".
Of course that only works in fantasies, never ever in real life. Fantasies are a safe place fully under my control. If somebody tried that in real life it'd just be horribly traumatizing.
TL;DR
It's not RAPE-rape.