>>4724654 You know what the problem is?
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>>4724363 And the REAL reason why it's so hard to find submissive male types, and actually having power over them, is that so few actually want that.
I've found that most boys or men that I've met who have claimed to be "submissive", are nothing of the sort.
They don't want their partner to actually be in power, they just ~want them to do all the work~
Apparently when I'm "in charge", it still means I'm supposed to be pleasing him. Not only that, but I'm expected to not just be "motherly" but actually take care of them. As in.. so they don't have to. I'm not talking about being supportive, I'm talking about them thinking that they can not have a job and be a "sexual slave" all day instead.
So.. you want me to work to support you financially, please you sexually in the way you desire - and you get to sit around at home supposedly "being a sex slave"? Really. Something doesn't sound right.
You want a strong, sexually dominant, successful and motherly older woman to be interested in you? Ask yourself this, do you still want that when you don't have a hard-on?
If it's just a fantasy fine - but don't say you're submissive. You are after your sexual fantasies being filled, no amount of grovelling or self humiliation doesn't change the fact you simply want a woman to give you want you want, the same thing a more "dominant" man is after.
What do I want, you might ask? Someone who doesn't hide behind the status of "I'm sooooo pathetic please punish me", so that they can avoid actually accomplishing anything.
Being submissive should never, ever be about slacking off. If you want a strong woman, WORK HARD. You can be a successful capable person and still be weak.
