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We all know that the dating game can be quite exhausting. Asking a person out on a first date can be a nerve-wrecking experience. When you pick up the phone to ask him or her out for a movie, you can hear your own heart pounding away rapidly. We're not mind-readers either so sometimes it's hard to determine whether or not the other party's feelings toward us are mutual. But don't despair and retire from the dating scene. Try out these useful and practical tips on dating:
The cold reality is that most people do judge others based on first impressions. So if you want the other person to discover what a great personality you have, then leave a good first impression so that the first date will lead to a series of dates. Spruce up before you meet. The better you look, the better you feel about yourself!
When you feel good about yourself, you tend to be more confident. All of us are inevitably drawn to people who are self-confident. When you're talking to your date, it's always good to focus on your positive points, without bragging at the same time.
Be approachable and show interest in the other person. There's nothing more offputting than a self-centred egomaniac. Your date will appreciate the attention you bestow on him or her. Smiling will put the other person at ease because it projects a friendly disposition.
Sometimes it can get a bit awkward trying to find the right things to say to your date. Those of us who are more shy and introverted may even get tongue-tied once in a while. Talking about current affairs or hobbies is always a great way to break the ice. It's best to avoid sensitive issues such as income, past relationships or sexual experience.
You should look the other person in the eye when talking to him or her. Having eye contact with your date tells your date that you are interested in what they are saying. If you keep looking away, you may send off wrong signals that you are bored with their company. Body language can reveal a lot about a person. Tone of voice, facial expressions, hand gestures and the choice of words all part a part in the sort of impression you leave behind.
Complimenting your date can work like a charm. We all like to be flattered. Not cheap flattery, but sincere and genuine compliments. It's always good to be modest when received compliments. We don't necessarily have to reject compliments, just accept them graciously with a 'Thank you'.
So after having a wonderful time on your first date, you are wondering how to broach the subject of a second date. Of course nothing beats a phone call if you can muster up the courage. For those of us who find it too intimidating, we can always resort to SMS or email as viable alternatives! Technology has made the dating game a whole lot easier.
The next question would be when is the appropriate time to contact the other person. Well, that really depends on your comfort level. Some people may feel comfortable doing it after two days, others may choose to wait a bit longer. It's up to you. But whatever it is, don't wait too long!
We all know that the dating game can be quite exhausting. Asking a person out on a first date can be a nerve-wrecking experience. When you pick up the phone to ask him or her out for a movie, you can hear your own heart pounding away rapidly. We're not mind-readers either so sometimes it's hard to determine whether or not the other party's feelings toward us are mutual. But don't despair and retire from the dating scene. Try out these useful and practical tips on dating:
The cold reality is that most people do judge others based on first impressions. So if you want the other person to discover what a great personality you have, then leave a good first impression so that the first date will lead to a series of dates. Spruce up before you meet. The better you look, the better you feel about yourself!
When you feel good about yourself, you tend to be more confident. All of us are inevitably drawn to people who are self-confident. When you're talking to your date, it's always good to focus on your positive points, without bragging at the same time.
Be approachable and show interest in the other person. There's nothing more offputting than a self-centred egomaniac. Your date will appreciate the attention you bestow on him or her. Smiling will put the other person at ease because it projects a friendly disposition.
Sometimes it can get a bit awkward trying to find the right things to say to your date. Those of us who are more shy and introverted may even get tongue-tied once in a while. Talking about current affairs or hobbies is always a great way to break the ice. It's best to avoid sensitive issues such as income, past relationships or sexual experience.
You should look the other person in the eye when talking to him or her. Having eye contact with your date tells your date that you are interested in what they are saying. If you keep looking away, you may send off wrong signals that you are bored with their company. Body language can reveal a lot about a person. Tone of voice, facial expressions, hand gestures and the choice of words all part a part in the sort of impression you leave behind.
Complimenting your date can work like a charm. We all like to be flattered. Not cheap flattery, but sincere and genuine compliments. It's always good to be modest when received compliments. We don't necessarily have to reject compliments, just accept them graciously with a 'Thank you'.
So after having a wonderful time on your first date, you are wondering how to broach the subject of a second date. Of course nothing beats a phone call if you can muster up the courage. For those of us who find it too intimidating, we can always resort to SMS or email as viable alternatives! Technology has made the dating game a whole lot easier.
The next question would be when is the appropriate time to contact the other person. Well, that really depends on your comfort level. Some people may feel comfortable doing it after two days, others may choose to wait a bit longer. It's up to you. But whatever it is, don't wait too long!
