>>7214994It just happens OP, you don't really notice it. It starts out as a few misc comments about you being cute, maybe seeing other people who are actually in shape and getting to talk with them about workouts and exchange advice. Realize you have something in common with these other stereotypically 'cool' and 'popular' people, even if they don't lift, maybe the issue is as simple as being passionate about something.
Eventually it just happens, you aren't actually looking for it. You'll still have moments when you become a shy little bitch around a girl you like, and then who knows if you'll actually man up and get her number or fail miserably. Maybe you'll fail, beat yourself up about it for a little and cry on /fit/, and then next time, you'll be ready. Either way it just happens and before you know it, girls are approaching you.
Good luck, OP. But you're not gonna need it.