>>9494658You're being a faggot.
Protocol to succeed is:
1. Understand what it is you fundamentally want
2. Establish goals (includes visualizing self having completed said goals)
3. Create plan to accomplish said goals
4. Execute plan to accomplish said goals
What is it you want? Love? Comfort? Success? Children? Money? Power? Sex?
You sure as fuck aren't in love with her. If you were, you'd be working your ass off every day to get her back, to get her to be yours, instead of just being on the computer. Love isn't just, "oh, well she's taken, I'll go somewhere else," you faggot. Obviously you don't really want HER. You want what she represents.
Again, is that beauty, sex, fun, power, children? Find out. Ask yourself. When you know, think about who you need to be to get what you want. Not what you need to be, who. You are changing yourself, your anatomy, your musculature, your cardiovascular system, your Central Nervous system, the very arrangement of your synapses, to be a fundamentally different person. Find the person you want to be.
Figure out how to be that person. And do it. That's the first step of success. Not trying, just doing it.
Get off the computer and DO IT, FAGGOT.