>>5618319Spoken like a virgin or someone with experience in too few women. First off, smells to me like the one you replied to can't even find a girl, so in his place I wouldn't worry about making one cum just yet. You'll find one though. I was a virgin till almost 30 and in the past 6 years since then I've fucked fucking constantly.
Second off, unlike guys, girls are totally different from one another. My ex came 5 times in 30 mins - 1 hour. Like fucking constantly. Then again my previous ex didn't come at all and unsurprisingly hated sex, and another only ever came from oral.
Don't base your sexual self-esteem on how well you can make one girl cum. With basic foreplay and doing even a little more than porn hydraulics, the girl will come if they can. And if not, then they're either not interested or they're fucking crippled when it comes to sex. Not your bad. Don't buy into the media propaganda BS that it's all the guy's responsibility, it really fucking isn't.
Besides, the number of women I know whose idea of sex is them lying still and doing jack shit is enough to teach anyone an "I don't give a flying goddamn fuck" attitude. If the guy's doing all the work, the woman has jack shit to say about anything. Personally if I do the work twice, the third time I'll say flat out that it's her turn to do goddamn everything. And if not, then it's time to go where the grass is greener.