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Some non-oral sex/sex tips:
It has been said by some that the brain is an erogenous zone. So work on ways to stimulate her brain before and during sex.
Cannot stress enough: communication is key. But not just finding out what she likes. Actually act on at least some of it. Find out if she has any fantasies. If they're too wild for you, like say rape fantasies or public sex, roleplay them. Roleplay can give her an outlet to exercise her fantasies in a safe environment. Most women don't just have one fantasy, they find multiple fantasies erotic. They'll have naughty fantasies, they'll have sexy fantasies, they'll have romantic fantasies, etc. Find out what they are, and go slow in fulfilling them. If you (figuratively) blow your load in giving her her most secret desires, where are you going to go after that?
Show your work. Pretend to seduce her every so often (maybe two or three times a year, maybe more or less often). Or. hey, actually seduce her. Show her that you are attentive to her and she'll appreciate the effort. Don't be afraid of overdoing it, or of "hamming" up a performance. Maybe she'll find it funny, and most women appreciate a lover who can make her laugh.
Dirty talk is also fun. Start slow, and--especially in fantasy roleplaying--don't be afraid to get creative. Some topics to avoid (unless she brings or has brought them up): incest, rape, orgies, sex outside her orientation, scatalogical topics. Some people get weirded out by certain topics, but if you keep things casual and "normal" for too long, it can get dull. Some women like stories, some women just like you talking about how much you love fucking her. Either way, it shows more effort on your part, which she'll appreciate, and sometimes she'll start getting into the act, too. Dirty talk back and forth is beneficial for you, too, because--once again--it leads to conversation. But dirty talk can sometimes be part of a fantasy, too. Not everything brought up in dirty talk is "real."