>>3216362>>3216362I am with the other anon on this, believe me its not that difficult to get into shape, the mind naturally tries to take the easy path i.e no physical pain.
October 2011, I was at 105 Kg at 23 y/o. Started having a lot of issues healthwise, ofcourse needless to say confidence was low. This happened due to a lot of issues, hence resorted to eating and sedentary lifestyle -> overwieght.
Went to the doctors, doctor said I should at least try to reduce some weight with regular workout else things were looking bad.
Looked up swimming + running was the fastest way to loose fat. Started doing that under a strict prescribed healthy diet, it was extremely difficult mentally, but I kept one thing in focus, health, I did not want to die. 3 months down, I lost 20 kilos. Right now I am at 80 Kilos, I gained some muscle through all that workout and now I feel pretty good about it too. Beleive me I am on cloud 9 when I get looks from girls.
In your case get some dental work done... I did too, I've got ceramic fillings and a prosthetic for a front tooth I broke when I was younger.
Don't be ashamed of seeking help, when years pass, no one will bother to remember this far back.. even if they do, they'll probably laugh it off.
Though I haven't had any stead relationship, only enjoying random hookups (always using protection).
To gain something in life, you have to loose some.
In your case you have to loose some time off anime and entertainment to get into shape.
Don't be negative... eventually that will drive you to deeper depression and suicide.
Think of all those hardcore soldiers who go through hell and are still laughing at the end of the day. If they can do that, we can at least get over our self pity and get into shape.
