>>380327I was shown a website for fetish-oriented people by my ex when I was 19. She was 25 and was curious about trying some new things with me after having ended her first ever relationship with a much older man that lasted for a few years and contained only vanilla sex. Anyway, the site has a "calendarium" that shows dates and locations for different events hosted by different clubs (like Dekadance, Club Wish, Borgen etc.). However, this site is in Swedish and only shows Swedish events, so unless you live here, I can't offer much more help.
Just google for fetish parties around where you live.
Oh, and I'm only a bit above average in terms of looks in my opinion, (I'm 5'9" so I have height issues :P) but I've still had good success at the clubs, especially when going together with a girl.
