>>138567Fugly landwhale whore
>>137793By "unpractical", I meant that it fucks everthing up. It wouldn't work for us. She'd get extremely jealous of me fucking another woman, even if she was there, I wouldn't like to see her with another guy. We don't want STDs, we're both clean and she's on the pill so we never use condoms. The hassle of finding someone you can trust enough yet not get close enough to so it doesn't become more than just sex. I love my girlfriend, she's the one for me. I don't want anything ruining that, therefore a 3 way of any kind is impractical because of all the shit it brings.
The problem with my situation was that I took her flirting to be a joke, and replied in kind. For instance I said that I frequently walk around uni in a bra and dress and had fake breasts and (sarcastically) told her to squeeze them. Now, as none of that's true, I don't see how she could have misconstrued any of that as anything but a joke, and as I specifically said "you won't get anywhere" several times, I don't see how I can be in the wrong.
Just because I don't think swinging would work for me, I don't want to force my views on others. But I also don't want others to assume that I'm interested in one just because I may come across as flirty. That's just part of who I am, and in every other instance, all the girls I've talked to have been aware that it's not serious.