>>684118Spot-on. I'm old, but less old than you, and this all straight-up speaks to my condition, as the quakers say.
However..
Women who go for assholes deserve assholes. Women who are in abusive relationships, deserve the abuse. Men who try to save women from their own decisions deserve all the shit they get, and then some. Only by NOT rescuing, or, rather, killing the rescue reaction, women who've fucked up their lives will they stand a chance of not being total fuckups.
We who live with eyes open will all get what we deserve, always, forever. We know the world is fucked up, so we've got no right to expect other than what our experience has taught us.. everything else is romantic comedy bullshit that's somehow polluted our perceptions by speaking to our childish fantasies of redemption and understanding.
I'm a low B, btw.