>>4610391I’m at a business school where my class size is fairly small (everyone knows each other; gossip spreads pretty easily, etc etc). Basically, my issue is that I’m, well, let’s say half-impotent. It’s sort of a mental and sort of a physical issue that Viagra helps with but doesn’t solve. Because of the fear of my problem, I always get worried about starting relationships with girls, or even really hooking up with them in the first place, and thus I’m also pretty inexperienced. Things are steadily improving, but definitely still far from perfect; sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t, and alcohol makes sex next to impossible.
So my question is how to deal with the situation. I don’t want to try things with some girl who turns out to be a total bitch, as this is a pretty embarrassing secret if it got out. At the same time, my friends here are definitely starting to wonder what’s going on with me–why I’m so non-aggressive, etc etc. Am I worrying too much about the possibility that this sort of thing would get out if things don’t work when the time comes? What’s the worst thing that happens if it did get out? Since I don’t talk to anyone about this, I always wonder if I’m just being too paranoid.