'sup /r9k/?

Ladychanner here requesting your assistance. I've been with this guy for 6 months, we're madly in love, blahdeeblah. To be quite frank, I don't want to fuck, but dear god these 2 hour make out sessions with no release are driving me crazy. I want to move up a level to handjobs/blowjobs/etc which is hindered by two problems:

1) We're both shy as hell, it took us 3 months to even talk to each other when it was blatantly obvious we liked each other. We're comfortable with each other, but we're both just nervous people. I know he wants it, he knows I want it, but neither of us can get the courage to do it.

2) I'm inexperienced. I've only been with one guy, and he was a controlling ass who pretty much just went at it and left me laying there. I have no clue what guys like, what to do, how to go about it. I know he won't care if I suck, but I'm so scared of reaching down his pants and yanking his little buddy off,leaving him withering in pain.

So, walk me through the next steps of this situation, if you sufficiently deliver (i.e. not just "jack him off" or other worthless explanations of what to do), I will sufficiently deliver (Pictures of me in cute panties, no face, too many of my friends are channers, but still, I have a nice body)

So, typical situation. We're in bed, making out, his shirt is off, belt is undone, my bra is off but my shirt is still on. We're going at it, licking and biting each other's ears/necks/shoulders/chests. From there I ________?