>>2410801>>2410911>>2410988Uh, wow. Geez. Okay, here's the description. It takes *patience*, first and foremost. It also helps if you can come pretty easily from fucking and whatnot. She started out being capable of multiple orgasms (only from the g-spot, though; if she gets a clit orgasm, she gets sleepy and she's all done).
What I did was have her hold off on coming as long as she could while I was finger-fucking her. Then, I'd turn up whatever I was doing a bit while telling her to come, so she was doing what she would have been anyway, but with my command added.
I moved into counting down--slowly, mind you--from about twenty. I would start at a point where I could get her to come with my fingers pretty easily, and just add the counting-down to it so she'd be able to time her orgasms with the countdown.
Again, this was well after she'd been 'trained', if you will, to come pretty easily from fingerbanging. I think having easy orgasms is a prerequisite to remote-control orgasms.
In any case, what I did was do the whole countdown-to-orgasm thing a whole bunch of times in a row, then stop with the finger-fucking, grab her by the neck, look into her eyes very, very intently and count down again. When I reached "two... one... *come*!", she was taken by surprise, and really, so was I--I hadn't really planned it, and I didn't know if it would work.
The look on her face--absolute glee combined with shock and surprise at her own orgasm--was something I will always treasure.
I always went more slowly than I thought I could... I figured that it was better to make sure that every countdown ended up in an orgasm than it was to risk having one of them fail and go against the conditioning.
Questions? Does that make sense?
