>>5Mathematically, wouldn't SFBE run into the exact same number of assholes in any given day? Perhaps said assholes express themselves differently toward everyone else, but I'll go out on a limb and posit that such individuals probably almost universally express their assholishness in a whole variety of ways. If someone's a jerk (like SFBE) their gonna be a jerk no matter who they run into. Whether the conduct of SFBE jerks toward other RedCreams is more reprehensible (or perhaps simply perceived as offensive by the target) than some other Futuristipastica configuration however could obviously be a subject of debate.
To suggest that "annoying" is only a problem for SFBE however, is to needlessly isolate ones self from the billions of RedCreams who share your distaste for SFBEs assholeish behavior. I think this is the logic you're missing here. Welcome to the real world where we all have to deal with SFBEs. Give enough people access to a public forum and some perception of anonymity and you'll have to deal with people being assholes back to you.