>>14731831Drow of the underdark has some actually interesting prestige classes for that.
Arachnomancer. Arcane with wildshape(Gargantuan) spider at last level. Can't really be disrespected due to usually working for a powerful matron and having a legion of highly poisonous spiders he could send to murder you in your sleep.
Dread Fang of Lolth. Militant, lawful evil, usually male drow fully devoted to one house, unlike the other, more self-serving drow. If he works for a powerful enough house, he could march right into the middle of a religious ceremony, grab a priestess by the hair, and drag her back to the matron for inquisition. No, really, a male drow with that much authority.