>>14783847I also happen to be 39, and I kind of get what he's saying, but... I don't want to be that bitter about it.
Personally speaking, I know I'm no catch (and I strongly suspect this dude is not exactly a prime relationship candidate either). I've spent years watching the great girls, my friends, who honestly were too good for me, end up in most cases with great guys. At the same time, the nutcases, and just nasty personality girls have either not gotten relationships, or have chewed through them, over and over, til they're single at this point. I might not be a great catch as a guy, I've got my own issues, but I'm not a nasty, self absorbed person, and when I look at the latter types of girls, it's depressing that by and large they are all that's left, and I know I'm better off alone than giving into society and biology and settling for goods more damaged than me (damaged in a way to make them harmful).
Also, I do know that such girls are not the only ones out there, I know there are others like me who have had their troubles, but are not toxic, not narcissistic nutcakes, and.. meh. I don't even know how to meet them anymore. Life probably sucks just as bad for them.
Meh. I'm content just to be depressed and lonely, fuck bitterness, that's just poisoning myself.
