>>8027113>One online who is unstable, younger than me, no job, could swear he is bipolar and/or adhd, Oh and is selfish.Prime dating material. You should hook up with him and go for it! :D Caution be damned - you have an emotional attachment with this obvious Alpha male, so do your part, support him financially, and especially pour all your emotional support into a man like this. He's sure to come around, see everything you've done for him, love you unconditionally, and next thing you know, you'll be married with a baby in the carriage! :D
>5 years older than me, stable, sensible, a little boring, has a great position at work, very sexy and really likes me, apparently has had feelings for me for a while.This is a BIG WARNING SIGN right here, sister. Red flags should be going up all over the place. First off, he's obviously Beta and therefor a pushover. He won't be there for you when you really need him, because he's such a pushover. The "nice guy" act is just an act to lure you into a false sense of security so you eventually do grow a "spark" of emotional attachment. Then... he's got you in this clever little trap. The worst that will happen is you will feel obligated to eventually marry him, followed by several years of a dull, dreary, unhappy, unfulfilling marriage where he cannot answer to your needs. Then, a messy divorce. STEER CLEAR!