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Two men-
One online who is unstable, younger than me, no job, could swear he is bipolar and/or adhd, very sexy though and we have a very strong emotional/mental bond. Oh and is selfish. We briefly spoke about meeting in the near future, but ldr's suck.
The other is someone I have been working with, is 5 years older than me, stable, sensible, a little boring, has a great position at work, very sexy and really likes me, apparently has had feelings for me for a while. BUT... no emotional attachment, the spark for me just is not there.
What do I do?!?! I don't want to date my co worker just because of these quite superficial dynamics that look great on paper... but I don't want to risk letting someone like him pass by for someone who I am totally unsure on.
One online who is unstable, younger than me, no job, could swear he is bipolar and/or adhd, very sexy though and we have a very strong emotional/mental bond. Oh and is selfish. We briefly spoke about meeting in the near future, but ldr's suck.
The other is someone I have been working with, is 5 years older than me, stable, sensible, a little boring, has a great position at work, very sexy and really likes me, apparently has had feelings for me for a while. BUT... no emotional attachment, the spark for me just is not there.
What do I do?!?! I don't want to date my co worker just because of these quite superficial dynamics that look great on paper... but I don't want to risk letting someone like him pass by for someone who I am totally unsure on.
