>>14383139Start getting healthy, going for a morning jog and so on. Then maybe it will. People dont go out actively looking to find a girlfriend, these things just kind of happen. But certain preconditions have to be met first, a basic degree of social ability, a basic degree of health and so on. Eventually you'll find someone (if you are in a social environment) who you click with so well you wouldn't even *feel* wierd asking them out for a coffee or something.
Just work for it, at the moment you're young and have the time. Don't listen to these pricks (both guys and girls) exhibiting their bravado here, they are only doing it because they are insecure and need an outlet to feel better about themselves.
And this is coming from someone who has been in two long term relationships, comes from a relatively wealthy family and is currently doing a postgraduate degree. So I win far more at life than the bravadofags could ever hope to, even with all their 'shit's so cash' bravado.
Don't lose hope. And if you *have* to change (for example if you are fat), acknowledge to yourself your failings and start working on those failings for YOURSELF at first, not for anyone else. Don't start going to the gym because you want a girlfriend, that's stupid, do it for YOURSELF. Other things will start to fall into place once you get into a mindset of self-betterment.