>>149192801Sorry, man. Really, I'm sorry.
Half the people I play with I've known for over six years online, never even met them or live near them. We find new games to play together, make our own guilds, and I've never really had the displeasure of joining groups or guilds blind, but I can imagine what it's like.
Just know that there are good people out there, even if they aren't easy to find.