>>7550166>>7550166I'm an INTJ, and while I don't think this test is that valid (I don't think it has that much psychological basis or whatever), I'd say it isn't that INTJ's suck at being social, it's that they don't see the point in small talk, because it's inefficient and they probably don't really care. I'm close to a few people, and although I won't tell them I'm close to them, the out of character things I'll do for them (cook them dinner, give them my last cigarettes, help them with work they find hard), is how I show my compassion to them. It's efficient and nice :3
And it can be true, a lot of INTJs view the world very cynically, and hate a lot of Extroverts, who they usually see as less intelligent and generally annoyingly tiresome, and from that perspective can come across as very icy, and it's true that I've had problems being loving and caring in relationships, but at the end of the day, we have a whole world of emotion inside of us that we rarely display, but feel quite strongly. We just don't let it get the better of us.